Medical abortion. I am so scared

[Loulou29]

6 weeks ago I had baby via emergency c section. Yesterday I found out that I am pregnant again while was on a pill. I need to do abortion because I cannot have this child so soon after c section. I’m so scared and I hate myself for not being careful. I never wanted to have an abortion.

Please don’t hate yourself, your DP was there too remember. This is something you both share the responsibility for.

Is there a reason that you feel that you can’t go ahead with the OG? I am in no way trying to talk you out of your decision, just want to understand how you are feeling a bit more

Ok, if you don't want to do it, there are definitely ways you can make this work. Presumably the babies would be 11m apart, this happens a lot for a lot of couples. Would they be the same academic year or different? Your body is amazingly adaptable and doctors could advise you on your recent section.

Obviously if you're sure on your decision, then you'll have tonnes of support, emotionally and physically.

It's your partners responsibility too

OP-you need to think practically. You need an emergency appointment with your GP-surely a pregnancy so soon after a c section would be incredibly dangerous?