Do I tell him? Abortion?

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Very stupidly got involved with a work colleague who is married with kids. Cooled off and we've remained very good friends.

I have now found out I'm pregnant, not sure how far yet, I have self referred to a clinic and have an initial call this week. There is no way I am keeping this baby, do I need to even tell him? We are good friends but I have no idea how he will react? Do I just say nothing go through it and take it as a hard lesson learnt?

If you were in a realtionship I would say yes becuase you don’t abort a baby and not tell the person you are in a relationship with but the reality here is he is married so you were only ever his bit on side so why mention it? I mean if you’ve any sense your be staying clear of him now anyway