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Please help, i've never felt so desperate

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IHaveBeenSoStupid · 11/07/2017 08:30

I'm really concerned I might be pregnant. I'm a fucking idiot.

Had unprotected sex recently (although he did withdraw in plenty of time, I do know this is still a big risk though)

I'm such an idiot. I already have one child. I was made a single parent (not my choice) over a year ago, and was stupidly flattered by someone showing an interest in me. I was drunk, so was he.

I need to wait another week before I can test to be sure. But I've had cramping almost constantly.

I feel like this is the end of my world.
What are my options? I absolutely cannot have another baby now, I have worked so, so hard to build a new life for me and my young child, and i just can't afford another baby.
I feel absolutely awful about it - my ex left us a week after I miscarried a year ago. I desperately wanted that baby now I'm considering terminating a pregnancy. What is wrong with me?

Is medical abortion quicker than surgical option?
I've booked a wonderful holiday for me and my child at the beginning of august, our first on our own. If I have to cancel this, I'll be devastated.

Can anyone advise what kind of time frame I'm looking at with these options?

Please don't judge me, I already hate myself for how incredibly stupid I've been.

I'm being STI tested soon too, incase I get flamed for that Blush

OP posts:
IHaveBeenSoStupid · 20/07/2017 08:19

I wasn't using any contraception as I hadn't been in a relationship for 18 months and had no intention of sleeping with anyone.

This was a one off. I was just stupid. I won't be happening again

OP posts:
Crumbs1 · 20/07/2017 08:23

Maybe keep a condom in your handbag, just in case? Glad you're all sorted.

Dlpdep · 20/07/2017 08:24

Put it behind you now and look forward to your holiday.

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