HELP. Periods...negative testa yet I feel kicking??

[JS1992]

Im 21, already have a son so im pretty familiar with pregnancy feelings.

I met a new partner and we havent been using contraception, but he pulls out.

I had a morning after pill 2 months ago.

My periods seem fairly regular, though they often change when they decide to come.

I have been feeling what feels like kicks, have taken about 8 tests in the last few months which are all negative so what are these movements? My belly looks bigger, and feels huge.

I took another test earlier and one of the lines were red, the other was colourless? Was told its an evap line. Please someone tell me what this could be?

You have taken 8 tests all negative, then it is. Even when trying for children the GP will say have you taken a test, if it says you are, you are.

At your age then relying upon withdrawal is plain stupid. Seminal fluid does still come out of the fellas bits before ejaculation, and depending upon how regular this is, it can still be carrying live sperm pre ejaculation. Not a good idea.

Hiya ive had 4 kids now and even when ive not been prgnant ive felt what feels like fluttering/kicks and it does give you a bit of a shock, but ive been told its because of mainly gas inside you etc and because we have been that used to feeling kicks etc we notice it more.

Often aswell whn ive been excersising especially my belly moves of its own accord as you would find in pregnancy which is weird lol

I been feeling kicks for years. Just ignore it its probably guess.

Gas

Withdrawal method doesn't work. Having sex without protection will lead to pg. BUT negative tests show you are NOT pg. Yet.

Unless you want another child, please visit your GP or family planning clinic as soon as possible and sort out some proper contraception. Your current method is incredibly risky both in terms of pregnancy and STIs.

Plus new partner. No condoms? Get checked for STDs?

I am sorry to say, but sometimes it could be trapped wind, if the test said negative, that's what it is. Go to your GP to have it confirmed for peace of mind if you like. And get checked for STDs.

Pretty risky behaviour, having unprotected sex with a new partner! Dont you care about sexually transmitted diseases, HIV and pregnancy? Why do you think the MAP is better than prevention?

Is he refusing condoms?

The feeling you describe is the feeling I get when I am bloated & windy. The feeling is the wind dispersing.

Brussels always give me that baby kicking feeling.

Get some contraception sorted. (Unless you WANT to be pregnant? In which case ask your DP NOT to pull his willy out).

I've got pregnant twice on the withdrawal method.

But eight neg tests your not pregnant, I get kicking feelings quite a lot and it's not uncommon from talking to friends.

You posted this in the 'contraception' topic.

Did you want some straight talking on the need to sort out a reliable method?

Have you and your boyfriend and STI tests? If not, then you need to get yourself tested, and insist on condoms until he does too.

And alongside condoms, you may want to consider another method (with aim of moving to just that once disease status is known). Are you planning a child with this man in the near future?