Hi there, it is comforting to read this thread as I now know I am not alone! Hormones are a tricky thing, and I know a few people with the Mirena Coil; it seems a bit 'Marmite' - either you love it, or hate it.
The old adage comes to mind.."If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is...." Don't want to be too negative though, as I do know that it works for some women really well. You will never know how your body reacts to it unless you give it a go, but on doing that I think you need to listen to your body - no one else can tell you how you feel.
I am three weeks in, and at present I hate it. I have been told to stick with it a little longer, as my GP surgery recommends a nurse appointment at 3 weeks and the doctor check at 6 weeks. The support from my surgery has been fab, with all the information I needed. I think that Progestogen only products just may not agree with me - had the mini pill before and it didn't work. Fitting a little uncomfortable, but having children it pales in comparison. The main thing is the bleeding... literally EVERY day as if I have a period, the pains are like a previous 'bad' month in my teenage hormonal years, but without the release of having a heavy period and it all being over. I feel like my body is waiting for something to happen, that won't.. is that weird?! NO sex drive at all either, like the nerve endings are all dead. That being said, I don't have mood swings or skin issues etc; in fact a couple of people have commented on how healthy I look in the last couple of weeks. My second child is now 12 weeks old, and I had my first full period just before the coil was fitted; so perhaps my body is still recovering from birth too.
I am also getting dizzy spells every day, like I am about to faint, but I don't. Is this a typical symptom does anyone know? I can't see anything about that in the blurb...
Considering that I chose this as something that would ensure that my husband and I will definitely not concieve again, and a way to have a hassle free and full sex life, it is a bit of a let-down as I a) don't want to be intimate at the moment and b) am bleeding all the time anyway, and that's not pleasant!
Here's hoping that it will improve, as I am not allowed any Oestrogen products anymore (pre-eclampsia and high BP during pregnancy, and history of BC in the family). If this doesn't work, it is condoms or more drastic medical intervention for hubby or me!