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June Music Thread

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Fleurdelise · 01/06/2017 08:00

Hello all and welcome to the June thread! Waffle did me the honours of asking me to initiate this thread as she has no access to Internet while on holiday.

This thread was first initiated by Waffle when Goo was 6 and now she's 11. It is a thread for all the musicians, big and small, to share their love (and frustrations Grin) during the long path of learning an instrument. I first joined when dd was 7 and in the process of preparing for grade 1 piano for moral support. If you read the ending of the May thread you'll realise I am still a nervous reck Smile here we are now, two years later, Dd is 9 and preparing for grade 5 piano and grade 3 clarinet, the exams are in exactly 13 days. I also have DS 15 who is in the middle of his GCSEs at the moment, he has no musical interest.

As I couldn't leave Waffle without an introduction, below is a quote from the May thread. The only correction is that I believe Rara has now turned 9. Smile

I have two daughters. Goo is 11 and in her last term at primary school. She's working towards her Grade 8 Flute (some time next year) and playing from the Grade 4 Piano book (currently refusing to take any exams, and putting off the first proper performance!). Rara is 8, may or may not be doing Grade 3 Cello this term, and is approaching Grade 2 Clarinet.

Both of them played the recorder for years, starting as preschoolers. They reached Grades 7 and 3 respectively, but sadly neither has really played since the music festival a few months ago. They are obsessed with their Flute and Clarinet, and really enjoy Piano and Cello. There won't be many opportunities to play the recorder at the secondary school they will attend, so much as I love it, it's probably a good time to quietly drop it. Recorder has given them both lots of opportunities, confidence, reading skills... and festival prizes!

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Greenleave · 12/06/2017 22:31

The mock now could conpletely demotivate her as she is unprepared. I am thinking of 10+ in Dec(and we might take the place if offered).

Fleur, is it tomorrow? Best of luck!! Mine is 15.07.

violinandpiano · 12/06/2017 22:37

Fleurdelise, good idea. Please PM to me as well. Thanks.

Fleurdelise · 12/06/2017 22:41

Green yes you're right, I forgot it is this term sorry, good luck.

I've sent it ViolinandpianoSmile

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Fleurdelise · 12/06/2017 22:43

And yes, ours are tomorrow. She played the piano pieces beautifully, that's why I'm annoyed, that if she had more time she'd be consistent. Maybe we're lucky and she plays beautiful tomorrow also.

Fingers crossed 🤞

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violinandpiano · 12/06/2017 22:51

Fleurdelise. Thanks and finger crossed to your DD.

Doubleup · 12/06/2017 23:20

Good luck to minifleur for tomorrow!

Anyone else have DC doing theory on Saturday? Looking forward to that being out of the way so that DD2 can just concentrate on her practice for the next two weeks.

Minimusiciansmama · 13/06/2017 05:40

Fleur good luck mini fleur today! I hope she enjoys woodwind day too. I'm sure she will rise to the occcasion and be fabulous. I'm off to watch the clarinet video Smile xxx

se22mother · 13/06/2017 08:04

Double up dd is doing theory on Saturday but only g1. We hope this will give her the foundation and confidence to accelerate to g 3

Kutik73 · 13/06/2017 08:04

Good luck miniFleur!! xxx

Wafflenose · 13/06/2017 08:05

Good luck, MiniFleur. I enjoyed the clarinet videos!

se22mother · 13/06/2017 08:05

Good luck mini fleur her overs sound amazing, sure she will be fine Smile

se22mother · 13/06/2017 08:13

Pieces not overs . Sorry multitasking Blush

foundoutyet · 13/06/2017 08:58

Thank you Fleurdelise for including me in the email. I do enjoy watching other dc. It's not something you can see/listen/chat about in real life.
However as you may have guessed from my name I am just too paranoid that someone would recognise dc.....

Best of luck to all taken exams. dc1 still has 4 of his GCSE to take and dc3 has music on , uh, not sure, I think this Monday but it's arranged through school.

Fleurdelise · 13/06/2017 09:46

Thank you for the good wishes all I am sure your good vibes will reach dd today.

I dropped her off to the wind band day and will pick her up at 1pm for the exams.

No problem foundout I was also dwelling on publicising dd playing, I had some bad internet experiences when she was a baby when somebody took a picture of an album and posted some nasty things on a blog. However I chose not to let that upset me as dd will play in public more, she will be recognised in real life and I do have her approval to post videos of her playing. As long as there isn't anything compromising her and it is all positive I don't mind.

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Wafflenose · 13/06/2017 10:03

Lots of people on MN know who I am anyway. As long as I don't say anything private, rude or controversial, I don't think it matters (to me!).

se22mother · 13/06/2017 12:39

Waffle, I have sent you a pm with a clip of dd

Greenleave · 13/06/2017 12:47

I know many people I know or know me already know me on here but that is fine. May be main reason that we are not really good, neither competitive or have any secret on our approach...a "common" family shall I say!

Can I ask question on my violin teacher please. If no response on email and no note for me, lessons are as usual time, plenty of notes for my daughter then what I should do. Is it normal? My most recent email was on piano accompaniment and it was a week ago, I already reasked. Anotherway I am thinking to move lesson to weekends however this is the last resource. My piano teacher is completely opposite, very approachable and work with us(me). I have appreciated him so much more since I start looking for a violin teacher.

se22mother · 13/06/2017 12:55

Greenleave no advice but just to say i am in a similar situation with unapproachable clarinet teacher

Trumpetboysmum · 13/06/2017 13:07

Good luck to all doing exams today. Luckily ds's isn't for a couple of weeks as he decided last night to play them the worst he has played in ages - he often plays badly for his teacher no idea why!! I shall try and stay calm and encouraging Grin I just hope he can focus enough to play well in the exam who knows !?!
Green I think having a teacher who communicates well is important. Even though he writes ds notes I like to know what's going on ( I'm far too much of a control freak!!) This current exam is organised through school so all I have is a written note with a time and place in his log book hope he doesn't need anything else !!

Fleurdelise · 13/06/2017 13:09

Exam in an hour Smile

Green different teachers have different approaches, we are lucky as the piano teacher is really really approachable, she calls randomly to tell us new stuff she wants to do with dd, she replies to all text communication and if I ask something about dd's practice (a confusing instruction for example) she'd call back and explain.

The clarinet teacher is less approachable, she she does answer texts in her own time so we still feel we can text but I do get more of a feeling that we are just a "job" for her, which we are and it's fine. She doesn't come to the exams centres or follow up to ask how it went, she waits for the next lesson to find out.

Don't know what to say about the violin teacher, could you call her instead maybe she is not a daily email user? Considering you don't attend the lessons I would except a certain level of communication by text/email as you can't always trust a 9yo to feed back everything.

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Fleurdelise · 13/06/2017 16:05

So dd came out of the piano exam crying. She restarted two pieces apparently. And messed up scales. Does that mean she'll fail? She is crying her eyes out, nobody knows what happened.

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ealingwestmum · 13/06/2017 16:14

Oh fleur, bless her. Lots of us have been there but it is not always as bad as it appears at the time. But that won't help right now. They feel so much upset because the exam performance is not reflective of how they usually perform Flowers

Fleurdelise · 13/06/2017 16:18

I really hope she passes as she already suffers of low confidence, if she fails she'll probably want to give up. Sad

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drummersmum · 13/06/2017 16:18

Oh I'm so sorry Fleur but based on this thread, that does not always and necessarily mean a bad outcome. Flowers

By the way, I've noticed that the videos on the new channel are public. isn't the idea to make them private and only accessible by us? I'm going to make them private and if anyone tells me not to, I will put them back to public. It's just that I have time now

Trumpetboysmum · 13/06/2017 16:31

Oh poor thing fleur but even though it seems awful now I bet it isn't as bad as it seems I was always messing up in exams and still managed to pass them. Big hugs to you bothFlowers
Drummers yes I think setting the channel to private is a good idea even ds might agree to a video going up if its private