Bellini
I didn't mean to imply that all three sides were to blame. The EU has to my knowledge been as reasonable as it could be, perhaps a bit too much.
The UK was given special consideration that other countries were not, for example being allowed to keep it's own currency whether by accident or design.
If you treat an entity as special, not having to follow certain rules, then it makes sense that entity might start to regard itself as special. How the UK began to think it was being oppressed by the EU is beyond me.
The only good possible thing that might come from a no deal exit is that the UK grinds to such a halt that within weeks it is begging the EU to be let back in. To quote from a Billy Jack movie, " The Born Losers " it might have to " say pretty please, on it's knees ".
A good question then is would the EU want the UK back no matter how much the UK begged? Or would it be like the remark that in terms of the UK crashing out of the EU and never coming back " better a horrible ending ( for the UK) than a horror without end ( the UK staying in and continuing to spew venom towards the EU ) ?