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What are Remainers ( the type that post on this board regularly ) going to do once the tories win the GE?

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surferjet · 11/05/2017 07:58

Because they are going to smash it, landslide victory, & all of that.
The libdems will crawl back under their stones, Labour will implode, & TM will get on with Brexit without annoying interference from people trying to stop it.
What are you going to do?
Carry on getting angry online?
Carry on demanding answers from internet strangers?
When will you just get on with your lives basically.

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RufusTheRenegadeReindeer · 12/05/2017 10:36

what

I think kaiji enjoys herself a little too much Grin

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HPFA · 12/05/2017 10:38

Well, I'll be hoping I keep hold of my job once the economy goes into a major downturn

DP and I agreed last night that if the Labour Party splits we would have to become active in getting the new party off the ground.

Seriously, though, why do some Brexiters seem unaware that at some point soon Brexit will actually be a reality? Maybe devout Remainers are wrong and everything will be OK but even if all of them retire to live in Trappist monasteries that will not affect the reality of what will happen. Either the dire predictions are right or wrong but if they are right shutting people up will not actually make them untrue.

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SeekEveryEveryKnownHidingPlace · 12/05/2017 10:40

Be poorer, just like everyone else except the already very wealthy, I guess.

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HPFA · 12/05/2017 10:43

"Carry on demanding answers from internet strangers?
When will you just get on with your lives basically."

Er, I hate to be the one to state the obvious, but you just started a whole thread demanding answers from Internet strangers.


I must admit the goading - sneering- victim process is becoming slightly less fascinating now.

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Mistigri · 12/05/2017 11:24

I must admit the goading - sneering- victim process is becoming slightly less fascinating now.

Grit your teeth, it's going to get worse before it gets better.

It will only get better once leave voters start to exercise the same selective recall that almost everyone now has about the Iraq war (that over two thirds of UK voters and most Tories supported according to polling at the time).

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Kaija · 12/05/2017 12:02

Think that's exactly right, mistigri.

Rufus, you're probably right. In my youth I spent an unnecessary amount of time playing the sort of computer games that involve fighting off shape-shifting troll-like creatures, and perhaps the habit has stuck.

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FuckYeah · 12/05/2017 15:15

I thought this was a helpful article when considering the apparent success of the strong and stable messaging, given that the challenges ahead would generally seem to be a bit Hmm more complex than that approach would suggest :

blogs.lse.ac.uk/politicsandpolicy/is-a-strong-leader-really-what-the-country-needs/

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FanjoForTheMammaries · 12/05/2017 15:19

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HPFA · 12/05/2017 15:37

be glad that twats won't start any more of these threads for a wee while

No, there'll be different threads.

"How do REMOANERS feel about the way the EU is punishing us? Are you glad? Why don't you STAND UP for Britian?"

"Do REMOANERs feel GUILTY about the way their whining stopped the EU from giving us a good deal? Was it worth destroying your country so you could be proved RIGHT?"

"Well. I for one feel happier jobless and broke so long as I am free from the UNDEMOCRATIC EU.. How do you feel REMOANERS?

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FanjoForTheMammaries · 12/05/2017 15:39

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RedToothBrush · 12/05/2017 15:47

There is.

Its just about 25 years off. Maybe 20 if people die off quicker.

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RedToothBrush · 12/05/2017 16:38

Lets see how two of my posts, from 15th June 2016 are holding up

In response to:
I want to vote, and vote with conviction.

RedToothBrush Thu 16-Jun-16 13:41:39
I think if you are Leave its probably more clear cut.

If you are Remain I think it tends to be an on-balance argument.

Which I think is making it hard for some people as they aren't in the later camp, but they are struggling with the on-balance argument with lots of confusing information. They are not 'YAY GO EU!! WWWWOOOO!'. Its difficult to muster that excitement. In true I think its disingenuous to suggest you can be that excited about the EU.

The EU is flawed. Its a big monster. But there are big friendly monsters and big horrible monsters.

Leave is not an argument based on 'facts'. Its more of an 'outlook' based more on belief. Its stupid to try and look for them. There is no plan. There is no argument really apart from the propaganda slogan of 'Take Back Control' which in fairness is a very strong and positive one, especially when it sits next to the shitty weakness of the Remain camp's propaganda. What does it actually mean in reality though?

The truth: Not a lot. Its left deliberately open to interpretation, as that means people attach their own meaning to it - and therefore convictions and beliefs. Its to empower the person reading it. But there is little real substance behind it.

'To take back control', in life requires a detailed clear vision and strategy. Yet its nowhere to be seen, and Leave are quite happy to do this as it offers them the opportunity to promise the world (or glittering generalities as the technique is know). What how many times the phrase 'Take Back Control' is going to be repeated in the next week. Its an interesting game for Question Time Viewing!

Then there's the reality. Article 50, which is the mechanism to leave the EU, is heavily weighed against anyone leaving (its therefore not anti-UK). It puts us in a difficult position to make good on the promises of taking control, especially since there are French and German elections in the same period. Us leaving is likely to be met with hostility, even at cost to themselves, to try and prevent others leaving and getting similar 'concessions'. We will, instead of being in control, be the political football of the Germans and French. Who have no obligation to agree anything. If after two years there is no agreement, then we get thrown back into poor terms.

Then you have to consider the implications of politics domestically. I don't think there is any consensus on what the UK actually wants. Its very vague. Before we even get to the negotiation table we will have to settle this. I can't see there being much will to do this or much agreement.

Oh, and as for taking control. We'll get control of Sangatte alright. Only in Folkestone.

I might feel differently if there was a plan either within the Brexit camp or the Remain camp. Instead we have lots of competing and contradictory arguments.

If you are looking for facts over outlook, then I would go Remain. Lots of facts (of varying quality and bias and propaganda) but there are facts. Whether you choose to trust them - and their sources - is another matter. There is a definite split along these lines.

I think Remain are doing a shit campaign. They don't get it. They haven't been honest, and they have tried to scare people instead of just going with what the EU is.

On balance the EU offer us security and stability. Boring as hell but undervalued. If the EU did go tits up, then we would be sucked in regardless. Better to do it with others, in those circumstances. Its more likely to be controlled then. Movement of people is going to be a problem in or out due to a global population that is growing. We are better dealing with those problems on an international basis with people we are on good terms with rather than have just pissed off. Likewise, trying to get back tax from international corporation and tax havens - otherwise it will encourage an every man for himself mentality in the finance world which we have been chipping away at, albeit slowly. Then there's works and human rights. Deregulation will chip away at these. Its not a good thing. It seems to be fair game to talk about the EU in twenty or thirty years. I think its fair game to talk about workers and human rights in twenty or thirty years too.

Then there's this: The referendum looks set to be cut along age lines with the young wanting to stay in. If Brexit win, we loose a generation to political engagement as they feel they have not been listened to. The implications of this are wide ranging. It means few will take up the much needed call to get involved themselves locally. That means they don't get head. It means career politicians will dominate even more. I fear this perhaps more than anything.

Brexit is about trying to draw lines of division to me. Its about trying to other, and trying to use the word 'I' a lot. Rather than looking at what shared grievances we have and what we are all pissed off at, and using that to try and find solutions.

Even in terms of immigration, the them and us thing in terms of integration, requires both sides of the fence to reach out to each other. That's those who identify as White British making a positive effort as much as those coming over here and taking on British culture. Instead Brexit is driving a massive wedge in that. I'm scared some of the strength of negative feeling, so why would anyone from a none white British background feel better about it? It only adds more fuel to the fire.

Finally, there's Scotland and NI and the issues of their sovereignty and safety. I grew up fearing NI terrorism. I don't want to go back to that. I don't want to loose Scotland. I didn't want them to go last year. I still don't. I don't see how England is stronger without either NI and Scotland. I don't want to see friends who are Irish and NI and work across the border area have to make huge decisions.

I am PROUD to be British. I am starting the resent the fact that, I can not be British European and still be proud. Cultures do not disappear with the redrawing of lines on maps. Cultures flourish with trade and the bonds that brings. What makes someone proud to be Welsh? They have managed to maintain and indeed extend that in recent years, whilst still being part of the union. Ditto, Scotland and NI.

I have friends who are European and I see them as every bit as equal. The Little England nationalism is tiresome, and inaccurate anyway. I reject it.

Anyway, MY decision, is not anyone else's decision. But that's where I am. That's why I'm frustrated. I do have certain concerns but they are not going to get fixed in the way people think. Nor is it a decision from being scared.

It boils down to this to me. You can't just overthrown the government - domestic or the EU - with two fingers up, unless you have a credible alternative waiting in the wings with a credible alternative to fill the void.

Where is that? Where is that really?

I just hear a loud echoing silence to that question

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RedToothBrush Thu 16-Jun-16 14:51:52
BOTH sides are using quite black propaganda. I think that Leave is being a little more clever and positive in the way they are doing it.

Historically, studies tend to show that the public favour positive messages so I'm not surprised its going down better. It may well win it for them.

It is detracting from what people really have to choose between though.

I don't find that terribly democratic in approach to be honest.

To me democracy is not just about layers of civil service and our ability to vote. Its also about how politicians decide to manipulate voters. Democratic debate should rest on getting to the heart of issues and coming up with policies as potential solutions to problems so that the public can make an educated and informed decision.

Do you think that's what we are getting?

And we are all whinging about the EU? And some see Leave as some sort of saviour from this?

They were posted BEFORE the Referendum and in the minutes before Jo Cox was murdered. It was BEFORE Theresa May became PM.

I fail to see how anything I've done, nor anyone on these threads has really changed any of that. What significant event or action has made a difference? Really? I can't think of anything. The only really big development has been the election of Donald Trump.

11 months on, I think they are holding up quite well. What might happen in the next few months was there to be seen.

In terms of 'being right', why would I want to be right at the expense of myself, my country, my values and the things I believe in? Its such an odd argument. Surely I'd want to be wrong so we can all have a better future. Why harm yourself to prove a stupid point on the internet?

It doesn't have to continue this way. The UK has the power to choose its own destiny still, but it has to make some consequence decision to break from the path it has set itself on. In order to do that, it has to acknowledge the problems and obstacles it is facing rather than keep on pretending they aren't there.

We have not progressed at all. Instead of people saying 'Take Back Control', they are saying 'Strong and Stable' - for the same reasons: so people attached their own meaning to it. And the opposition are firing back with messages that aren't really anymore inspiring 'For the Many not the Few' and if you can even remember it never mind know who its for 'Changing Britain's Future'. We are in the depth of propaganda not policy or decision making. There is no real public debate on important issues. Its all about ideology.

Its no wonder that no one has really changed their minds on Brexit. No one has done anything to heal wounds or bridge divides. May's language has only been to maintain those misconceptions and hold off inevitable and unavoidable realities.

I would like this country and its leaders to start choosing an actual path rather ploughing on like leemings and blaming others for their LACK OF LEADERSHIP. And yes that's what we've had. Otherwise we would have moved on from this point, and things would actually have happened. An election will not change this. An election will not make May a better leader. May has been reactive and not proactive. She has never been ahead of the curve of seeing or predicting what was going to happen next. It will not change how the land lies, no matter how much propaganda is spat out and how many votes she wins. It does not change how the EU will react, quickly rightly and naturally, to protect their own interests - as we would do if someone else had decided to leave the EU whilst we were still a member. The divides will not disappear on June 9th.

We've lost months because we have not faced up to realities. Even if that reality is to start actively planning for a possible crash out - with contingencies for things like queues at Dover. Not that I particularly want that either.

sigh

This is what frustrates me so much. People said that the 2008 crash was not predictable. Some of us saw it coming a mile off, and planned accordingly. Reflecting back, just how surprised have I been about the events in the last 11 months? Not nearly as often as I should have been. How wrong have I been about what's happened? Not nearly as often as I would have liked.


Do I want to say "I told you so?" Fuck no. But there it is. Its not going away until someone starts to make it go away through showing the leadership we really need, which isn't through silencing critics and naysayers. Its through working with them.

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whatwouldrondo · 12/05/2017 16:44

Please don't wish my parents an earlier death Red Wink

Speaking of which I rang them last night and they were with friends and had clearly all been at the Prosecco obviously their patriotic duty to drink as much a possible to increase the leverage for the EU to give us a good deal

Having said when sober that they were beginning to regret their vote there was much hilarious joshing with their friendsand proud and loud declarations that they were LEAVERS, like you would do in the pub after your team won. This, the parents who taught me to resist peer pressure, as I recall with frequent use of the words "Would you jump off a cliff if they told you to"...........

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Peregrina · 12/05/2017 16:57

What significant event or action has made a difference? Really? I can't think of anything. The only really big development has been the election of Donald Trump.

You were so right Red, in just about everything. However, I would like to offer the seeing off of the right wing in Austria, the Netherlands and France as the beginnings of making a difference, plus the remaining 27 being united. Neither were wholly predicted - especially by the Leavers.

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surferjet · 12/05/2017 17:15

be glad that twats won't start any more of these threads for a wee while

The regulars on this board actually quite like each other. We've been chatting now for almost a year, & although we annoy the hell out of each other we are great friends.
But to the untrained eye we appear to hate each other.

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TheElementsSong · 12/05/2017 17:17

Great post RTB Flowers

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Figmentofmyimagination · 12/05/2017 17:17

I wonder whether some of the anger directed by Leavers at people who don't agree with them is down to irritation at sensing that even though they achieved what they wanted, it feels like a hollow victory because nobody respects them for it. It must be quite challenging to sense everyday that so many people are looking at you thinking "WTF" - and that even if they smile politely, they are still thinking "I used to respect this person".

What will I be doing? Don't know. It depends how it pans out. I expect I'll still be marching. I wonder whether the marches will stop looking quite so middle class and start to look more like August 2011 etc. It's not as if we haven't been here before in the 80s and the 90s. I bet Boris is pleased he invested in those water cannon.

Even I was shocked to hear the Leave "expert" on the Today programme cheerfully acknowledge, without pausing, that we will all be poorer in five years. What a shame they didn't display the same level of honesty on the side of their bus.

"Vote leave to pour £350 million down the toilet each week".

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BertrandRussell · 12/05/2017 17:20

People who think that the size of the Conservative majority (not Theresa May's-we vote for a party not an individual in this country) makes a blind bit of difference to the Brexit negotiations just do not understand how democracy works.

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MsHooliesCardigan · 12/05/2017 17:36

Wow Red it's quite eerie reading that. You were pretty much spot on.

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MrsSummerisle · 12/05/2017 17:40

People who think that the size of the Conservative majority (not Theresa May's-we vote for a party not an individual in this country) makes a blind bit of difference to the Brexit negotiations just do not understand how democracy works.

Not a decisive difference, but of course a bigger majority gives the leader more prestige in an international forum. And although we do technically vote for MPs, no party since 1979 has won an election without its leader's ratings being higher than the opposing leader's, so our system has been quasi-presidential for a long time.

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RedToothBrush · 12/05/2017 17:45

But to the untrained eye we appear to hate each other.

Surfer I'd like to agree. I think there is more civilness and respect than there was, but there is still a way to go. There are posters (on both sides) that certainly are still more at the hate stage.

I personally am frustrated. I look at what you say, and I don't necessarily disagree with you. I do want to shake you and say, "If this is the future you really want than be positive, vote for it" and, get others to vote for it and make that point that this is the Brexit you want or say I'm not happy and perhaps we should do more to say to Mrs May that she's going about this in the wrong way.

Instead, you see May as a short term pain in herself, in order to facilitate something that will not happen if she wins on 8 June. Instead the course of history will be set in a way you don't want just as much as you don't want to stay in the EU.

My views differ from yours. That doesn't matter really. What I believe in is that individuals and groups have more influence and say than they are lead to believe. I believe that is an idea that needs challenging, as well as holding politicians to account properly. Your Brexit is not their Brexit. If you want to Take Back Control, then don't look to Theresa May for it. Look to Corbyn regardless of his flaws if you like the policies. He's a stubborn old boot despite everything levelled at him.

Faith in democracy is what is needed, and what was always needed. Not Brexit.

The EU and itself member states could do with learning that, with or without the UK as a member. Some are. Some aren't.

This is where I disagree with you Peregina. Has the danger passed in the EU? France survived. This time. But the demographic is stacked up badly there for the future whilst ours is stacked up badly in the present. Macron has a chance, but he HAS to deliver. That's no small task.

There is hope, but we need to be conscious rather than complacent. There are many hurdles for the EU itself to face. Brexit in reality is a challenge but only one of many for the EU27. Its not its biggest, though here in the UK we believe it is.

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woman12345 · 12/05/2017 17:45

Not a decisive difference, but of course a bigger majority gives the leader more prestige in an international forum
Where?.

so our system has been quasi-presidential for a long time
Has anyone told Brenda?

no party since 1979 has won an election without its leader's ratings being higher than the opposing leader's
Yet. Grin

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Figmentofmyimagination · 12/05/2017 17:46

A smaller majority would give her the excuse to say "I really don't think I can sell that", meaning more leverage in a negotiation rather than less.

A large majority will just leave us all at her mercy and mean yet more meaningless dictatorial carping about the "Will of the People".

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Draylon · 12/05/2017 18:15

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RedToothBrush · 12/05/2017 18:18

In the same vain woman.

Brexit wasn't supposed to win.
It was the 'stupid' voters that supported it.

It won.

Trump was never going to win. He had no chance.

He won.

Breaking political assumptions can be done. They require people to have belief that their vote makes a difference though. When people like Surfer are looking to May rather than to where their heart lies with Labour then it is a fait accompli. Surfer is not alone.

She won't get her vision of Brexit. I'd rather she got it, than the one we will get.

Here's the thing.

If there is one thing that I have learnt over my years on the internet its this: You are not unique. You are not the only person who thinks a particular way. You might say something, but someone out there will agree with you - whether they say it or not to you. In fact for everyone who does say it, there are lots who silently agree, that you probably will never know about.

THAT is the power of the internet and THAT is the power of people. Its using it and unlocking it and voicing it in a way that is able to make a difference and change the direction of things that is difficult. But it CAN and DOES happen.

It isn't some wishful thinking or idealistic dreaming.

That's why I carry on with the Westministenders threads. In the hope that we do get the charismatic leader we need who can unlock that and start making the difficult decisions we all need for a secure future - regardless of the Brexit question. May's not it. But I'm not sure who is either.

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