bear Remainers seem very wedded to their European citizenship judging by the threads I've read on here since the referendum.
I think that you are guilty of tarring all leavers with the same brush by your allegations that they are 'racist, xenophobic and bigoted'. I also think that you are guilty of not wanting to examine too closely why people felt they wanted to vote leave.
I like Europe as a geographical place, hell, I even live there; just to the SE of Brussels. However, I despise the EU and all it stands for. I think it is a political vanity project, and that it isn't accountable, doesn't want to reform, and that it treats member states with contempt; see Greece, Italy, Cyprus, and just in the news today, Poland. Rules are applied inconsistently, and to me it seems it is all about what is best for the 'EU' as a political entity, as opposed to what is best for the inhabitants of the member states (again, see Greece).
There is a maelstrom coming for the EU even without Brexit, and even Juncker is beginning to realise that, with his recent 'oh shit' speech to the EP, where he acknowledges that the EU hasn't listened to the people. There was no status quo for which you were voting if you voted remain. Things are going to change with QMV and further enlargement. The migrant count is up again in Greece, and according to a Greek contact of mine, Germany and Turkey between them will turn Greece into a holding camp for the migrants and leave Greece to deal with it.
Turkey is unhappy with Germany, Austria and now the NL, and the EU can't do anything if Turkey decided to take its ball home with regards to the migrants. The EU has kicked the can on this one, and on Greek debt relief for a long time, and I expect that soon the Greeks might have had enough. Italy has dodgy finances as well, so it won't take much to set the whole thing off. I think we are better off out.