smallfox
It looks like your research isn't as comprehensive as you think it is.
Starting with facts:
(i) When 'EU Constitution' was rejected, it was repackaged into Lisbon Treaty. And when Lisbon treaty was voted down by the Irish, EU had that voted again until they got a yes.
(ii) When Mr Cameron veto the EU bailout fund in 2011, the rest went around UK and went ahead anyway.
Now, the projected stuff:
(i) Given the above, do you think when the EU wants the next power transfer, it is going to let the UK's 'referendum needed for power transfer act' get in its way? If there was a no vote, it will either repackage the power transfer or just do a repeat, vote until result=yes.
(ii) You said "centralising current EU (military) operations" - so it this going to be a relocation of existing budget and reuse of existing desk space or squeezing into the empty broom cupboard th EU HQ?
Of course not, this is going to be a new building, new budget, new personnel. And from the humble start, it will grow. If say Denmark don't agree, they will water it down a little, package it into some sort of joint-op centre and take over a floor at the HQ and then when people don't notice, expand it.
As for NATO, has NATO started a NATO Central Bank, a NATO open border schemes, a NATO economic redistribution unit or NATO single market? No - NATO was for defence 65 years ago and it is still for defence today.
EC though, is no longer EC.