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Why I Voted to Leave the EU

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Asprilla11 · 26/06/2016 19:19

So I recently started a thread about the misconceptions many remain voters may have about why people voted leave. I argued that there were many reasons other than immigration and that the majority voted fully understanding what the outcome would mean.

On that thread and many more on MN the remain voters keep asking us WHY we voted and are annoyed when we don't answer in full, they forget that since the result SOME have acted in an aggressive and belittling manner towards us, so why would we feel engaged to reply? Many leave voters have had to spend time defending themselves because we have all been branded thick and racist. We are more than aware some racist people voted to leave in order to pursue their disgusting agenda, most leave voters don't want to be associated with those people and we condemn their stance.

I am willing to say my reasons why I voted leave, even if it means I am attacked for doing so.

EU Commissioners

They are not democratically elected (by EU Citizens) and the President has the final say on any candidate that a member state has put forward. Technically they are accountable to the European Parliament by the fact that the Parliament is able to force the entire Commission to resign through a vote of no confidence. However the Parliament has never done this, but have threatened to do it once. It also needs 2/3 of the Parliament to vote and agree on the reason for the no confidence vote. We can elect MEP's but they have little power over the commissioners.

The commissioners are paid nearly £200,000 per year (some more) and also get generous allowances, benefits and a very good pension. I do not believe the current commission deserve that level of pay, they simply have not earned it, I believe they put their own self interests above EU citizens and I believe they are morally and financially corrupt. If they were worth the salary then the amount would be fine, I just don't think they currently are.

EU Economy

There is very little growth and it is only going to get worse if the Eurozone fully collapses which I feel is a real possibility. Struggling EU nations such as Greece, Spain, Portugal and Italy are in massive debt, suffering with austerity and massive youth unemployment. I don't believe many of the of the other EU nations care about this, as long as the wealth benefits their country then they will pay lip service to those who are less fortunate. I also believe a lot of the benefits of the EU economy and the trade it brings also benefits the wealthier members of society more than the poor, in all of the EU member states.

If the EU had showed they would reform and a new fairer commission was set up which looked at making deals fairer for all EU member states and also looked at immigration in depth (not necessarily changing it) then I would have voted remain without a second thought. However the commission proved what an arrogant bunch they are even before Cameron went to get his 'deal', they won't reform, they don't want to and they don't care who knows it.

UK Economy

The UK will be 6-8 billion pounds better off after no longer paying the EU membership fee, even after the grants we used to receive are taken in to account. However there were several studies that pointed out that the loss in trade will far outweigh the savings from leaving the EU and we will actually be worse off financially. I didn't doubt some of the facts in those studies and I could see how they came to their conclusions, however even those studies have to admit they can't say for certain because nobody knows how quickly we will get new trade agreements with EU member states and how favorably they will be. Additionally although EU membership did not prevent trade deals with the commonwealth and other countries, it did reduce the need and the imagination to. It is only when those deals are in place can you truly say leaving the EU has left us worse or better off. In the short-term we will be worse off, I knew that risk prior to voting.

As a Labour supporter and also someone who is very distrusting of the current Tory Government I can hand on heart easily say that not a single thing Farage, Gove, Johnson and Duncan Smith said I believed at face value. In fact I consider Gove as one of the worst Education ministers ever and IDS I hold responsible for the suicide of some disabled benefit claimants, such an odious man. So believe me the leave MP's definitely didn't impress or influence me!

I did my own research which I always do whenever the Government (any party) state things as 'facts'. I knew the £350 million claim would be wrong (which remain supporters kept shouting was lies) however I also knew the Governments claim that every household in the UK would be £4300 worse off was also wrong, but do you get the leave voters shouting lies? Both sides lied, that is a fact!

Since the crash in 2008 many, many people in the UK (not just the British) have not seen any improvement in their wages or living standards. They have borne the brunt of austerity more than the people who could afford to. The 5th biggest economy in the world and an economy that has recovered and grown still has not brought any benefits to the poor and working class. They didn't consider how leaving the EU would affect their ISA's, Savings, Stocks and Shares because they don't have any! They didn't think about if their child could go to Uni because they would never have been able to afford that anyway. The poor and working class in the UK and the EU don't care if they are a bit worse off for a few more years, they are sick of the wealth that is generated only benefiting the wealthy, this was their chance to be heard.

Immigration

I wasn't going to mention this as it did not play much of a part (if any) in my decision and I also feel like as a leave supporter I have to keep defending myself whenever the word immigration is mentioned, simply because the remain voters keep saying we are all racist.

But here goes.

I worked in the Civil Service from the age of 19 for 15 years. I worked with people of all ages, all religions, all nationalities, LGBT and disabled people too. I matured as an adult in this environment and it undoubtedly made my life richer. I was also a Union Rep and defended colleagues in disciplinary, poor performance/attendance, diversity and disabilities (covered by the Equality Act 2010) meetings and hearings , both british and non-british. Since I left I have kept in touch with former colleagues who are now lifelong friends, some are British, some aren't, it wasn't a factor in whether we became friends or not.

I only mention all of that simply because a lot of remain voters think we have no positive outlook on immigrants and we don't mix in a multi-cultural society. They also think we don't understand the positive impact on the economy migrants (EU and non-EU) have. But actually most leave voters do, immigrants pay far more in to the system than they take out in benefits, that's a long standing, well known fact. There are far more british people who falsely claim benefits compared to immigrants.

Unfortunately I will admit there are parts of society, some of which voted leave who don't understand these truths. Some through lack of education, some through lack of life experience with people of diverse backgrounds and some sadly who are racist. These are the people who already felt poor, cut-off and unheard. UKIP and other politicians preyed on those peoples fears and told them they could help fix their problems.

That is not however the majority of leave supporters, I truly believe that. Most leave supporters have had experiences like mine and we all have experienced nothing but positive things from working and living with immigrants, EU and non-EU.

If the EU could have done one thing with immigration then I wish it gave all EU member states the ability to put a temporary block or cap on EU migration. I say this for the simple fact that the UK and other countries don't have the housing, schools and hospitals to cope with the current UK (not british) population growth, we simply aren't building enough of anything. When you add over 300,000 immigrants to that population growth you start to see the strain it creates.

I think the UK can cope with immigration well above 200,000, when it has the infrastructure in place, until then a temporary reduction or block until the work is done would be a useful tool to have. Alternatively you could look at using builders from the EU countries who could then come and work on those very buildings that are needed.

Finally on immigration, I think Governments in all EU countries need to act more responsibly on where and how immigrants are placed in to communities. Dumping some of the poorest immigrants in the poorest parts of the UK next to communities who are experiencing crime, unemployment and disillusionment with life in general and their prospects, is a disaster waiting to happen, especially when some of those people are known racists.

UK employers, EU employers and landlords in and out of the EU also need to be challenged more on their blatant exploitation of immigrants.

Ok flame away!

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Chris1234567890 · 27/06/2016 13:33

Im happy to agree support for the HoLs is low. However, that misses the point. Perhaps the sheer lack of will, to have it removed, is because the actual impact of the HoLs is low too? But Im more than happy to support a request for a referendum on it, but as it very rarely uses its muscle, the last time I beleive was to block the tax credit bill, the impact of disbanding the HoLs wouldnt be noticed by the man in the street.

My point was trying to explain why it exists in the first place, and why such a seemingly undemocratic body of men (women) exists in a democratic society. As with the monarchy, same principles apply. Is it because the nation simply hasnt been asked the direct question? Or is it because the impact on our daily lives is negligible and indeed, the benefits, when they come, are benefits we all enjoy? (I love a good royal wedding)

Sadly, the impact of EU membership, affected most of , most days of our lives.

tabulahrasa · 27/06/2016 13:36

See that takes me back to my original point, if you voted for leave it was a huge what if, because there was nothing to actively vote for, there was nothing outlining what anyone wanted from it.

Asprilla11 · 27/06/2016 13:43

tabulahrasa

See that takes me back to my original point, if you voted for leave it was a huge what if, because there was nothing to actively vote for, there was nothing outlining what anyone wanted from it.

They wanted a reformed, fairer EU. It wasn't going to happen so yes they took the gamble that we may be better off out of the EU. We know it is partly a leap of faith.

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littlemissblue · 27/06/2016 13:49

Asprilla what about the £65 billion that the financial sector pay in income tax alone, that will disappear, and not be replaced if we leave and the banks move out of London into the EU to Paris or Brussels?

tabulahrasa · 27/06/2016 14:02

"We know it is partly a leap of faith."

Be honest though, it's not partly, it's completely. In fact that's all it was, blind faith that the government would sort something out and that that would be better.

Asprilla11 · 27/06/2016 14:06

littlemissblue

Asprilla what about the £65 billion that the financial sector pay in income tax alone, that will disappear, and not be replaced if we leave and the banks move out of London into the EU to Paris or Brussels?

I don't think the banks will leave, I think the Eurozone is heading for big trouble quite soon and that the UK will end up being the safer option.

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roundaboutthetown · 27/06/2016 14:09

And destroying other European economies helps us how, exactly?

SnowBells · 27/06/2016 14:11

Chris1234567890

I'm not really against the HoL or something, but how can we have a body that seemingly has no impact on our daily lives, but is 800-strong (bigger than the US Congress!) for a tiny nation like Britain?

We have to disagree on the EU membership thing... it will be one of those things for which the following applies: you only miss it when it's gone. If the Leave campaign had an actual plan in place, I would be more willing to say...ok, give it a try. But seeing the parties involved behave like they're in some kind of Game of Thrones episode, not knowing what to do, while firms have prepared for this eventuality for MONTHS, and actually have plans in place... makes me Shock Hmm Confused.

The only politician that seemed to have figured out before the vote what would happen, if we did vote leave was Nick Clegg! I was very amused by the #MysticClegg hashtag trending. Grin

lljkk · 27/06/2016 14:12

the auditors responsible for auditing the the EU commission, has for the last 5 years, refused to sign off the accounts for the commision due to substantial discrepancies.

[[https://fullfact.org/europe/did-auditors-sign-eu-budget/ That is a total fuckwittery shit LIE].

lljkk · 27/06/2016 14:12

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SnowBells · 27/06/2016 14:13

Asprilla11 Why do you never reply to me? I'm hurt. Wink

WaitroseTrolley · 27/06/2016 14:16

lljkk I wasn't aware of that website, thanks for linking.

Asprilla11 · 27/06/2016 14:20

SnowBells

I'm very sorry, please forgive me. I have mainly been on some other threads and have just quickly popped back on this thread a few times.

I don't doubt you will have a better understanding of the finances than me, most of what I would've said in return has been said by Chris1234567890 and joysmum.

The truth is I think both sides have not declared true and honest figures so making an informed decision was far from possible. Smile

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Asprilla11 · 27/06/2016 14:22

lljkk

That is where I got several of my facts from. I never claimed anything about the accounts.

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SnowBells · 27/06/2016 14:23

Why is no one in the Leave camp worried about companies and agencies leaving the UK?!? Like the financial industry that contributes WAY MORE than whatever the EU may cost us on an annual basis. If the activity in the UK just halves, we'll be so MUCH worse off than by just having stuck to the EU.

It's mind-boggling. And it is not a 'what-if' (hello, the Leave camp doesn't even have a what-if scenario)... it's fact. If we're shut out of the EU, we don't have passporting rights (for those not in finance... that's a BIG thing), etc. We are losing more than what we pay to the EU. Much more.

tabulahrasa · 27/06/2016 14:24

"The truth is I think both sides have not declared true and honest figures so making an informed decision was far from possible."

Rofl

Yes, facts and figures that exist and you can find vs ah, I'm sure it'll all be brilliant, why not?

SnowBells · 27/06/2016 14:28

Asprilla11

That's where you have to research on your own rather than just use government figures. Easier for me - I work in finance and have all the tools to do my analysis. I understand not many do. However, many experts (who use the same tools as me and are way more qualified) have warned the UK again and again.

And stupid Gove (who NO ONE on Mumsnet liked when he was in charge of education) said that people are fed up listening to experts. Hmm Somehow, people listened to him.

Chris1234567890 · 27/06/2016 14:29

Snowbells, i do think we all have far more in common than is being portrayed. There is a distinct lack of independant day parties, for the exact same reason you are feeling. I am not celebrating a victory (though I am having to defend my decision). Im gutted DC wasnt able to negotiate a compromise on the freedom of movement issue. Im gutted DC has thrown in the towel and left us leaderless. Im gutted the EU didnt reflect the ideology behind its whole existance. Indeed, having typed it, I do feel, the sense of failure as felt in a divorce. There is no winner, and the children are currently suffering. And yes, Im as equally terrified about whats to come as I think you are.

Where we differ is, I felt strongly enough about the terms of the marriage, to vote leave. You (I dont mean to put words in your mouth) I assume, felt the marriage terms were actually ok and certainly not worth the life changing disruption inflicted on the 'children' by divorce. Perhaps as with divorce, both sides will never quite understand the other. We say, how can you put up with that?! You say, how can you leave because of that?!

Many feel 'liberated' but my guess is the majority like me, are actually bricking it. But does that change my decision? Absolutely not. It would be nice for both sides to be heard, hence I think the OP started this thread in the first place. To try and find some understanding. Im not shying away from hearing how upsetting it is, but I wont get thrown into some knuckle dragging racist bucket that has been created over this issue, or buckle under the pressure of potential job loss devastation. For me, I simply drew the line. It was a line, I would very much have preferred not to have been put in the position of doing.

Does that equate to regretting my vote? Absolutely not. But, you asked, I answered. The nation was asked. We answered.

SnowBells · 27/06/2016 14:44

Chris1234567890

Yes, it's different for all of us. If you don't mind - how does the EU impact your way of living? It doesn't impact mine at all. And I doubt 52% of Britain are directly affected by an EU Directive.

Suzeyshoes · 27/06/2016 14:44

Can I ask if you are in any way affected by the brexit vote Chris?
It doesn't sound like you are, and I would suggest you come down to areas around London where whole communities are crying in the streets, people who would find your ho hum attitude offensive because their lives are about to be torn apart by somebody else's choice.

Again, this is why a better option should have been sought instead of a referendum. Ok it would have taken time but THIS result is not acceptable for anyone, hence the lack of street parties you mention.

Joysmum · 27/06/2016 14:53

We are directly affected. My DH works both here and in the EU where the factory is.

He, and his colleagues voted out, the guys in the factory are rubbing their hands together in anticipation of getting their referendum too.

For my part, I make money from property development and rental which it is predicted will affected negatively in the short term by Brexit.

We've both voted based on our beliefs of what the long term benefits are to the country, not short term self interest.

SnowBells · 27/06/2016 14:53

Suzey

It won't be just London soon. That's just where it's most palpable right now. It will spread. When London sneezes, the rest of the U.K. catches a cough. Always.

roundaboutthetown · 27/06/2016 14:55

Lots of people's lives have been torn apart in the last few years, though, Suzeyshoes. I don't think many people have really paid much attention to, or cared about, the needs of other groups for a very long time. People have been too intent on blame, self-protection and self-justification. The result of the vote is partly an expression of that

HisNameWasPrinceAndHeWasFunky · 27/06/2016 15:01

I appreciate you taking the time OP - I can see you gave this some thought.

Unfortunately you still voted to follow Boris, Gove and Farage, all of who milked the racists immigration card for all they could, with their lies and shenanigans.

The Far Right of the world applaud you. I don't.

roundaboutthetown · 27/06/2016 15:03

I think people on both sides of this had good reasons for their opinions. I think it is a huge shame the result was so close. Something more decisive would have been better. As others have said, though, what is done is done. If it makes Londoners take more interest in what is happening in the rest of the country and how much it has been starved of investment, now that the rest of the country has had an effect on it for a change, that's probably a good thing. I'm still devastated the country didn't vote remain, but I kind of saw it coming. There was a sad inevitability about it.

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