Maidenhead or Ealing

[SarBat]

Hi
I am struggling to figure out something here. I have recently (well in the past two years) moved to Burnham from Ealing. Although we got our first spacious house with our little ones. We find it quite boring here and dull. It seems like Berkshire may have everything on the books for children but the vibe in all seems dull and boring. Whereas when we visit back in Ealing its vibrant and you get occasionall interactions with people. The parks in Ealing seem to be so much better than parks in Maidenhead.
I cannot seem to figure out where should I really settle...my DC1 is about to be 4 soon and I need to figure out where should I really be settling in. I do like the space here in Maidenhead area but it is boring here.
Although Ealing being in London has lack of space but has everything else like amentinities and good quality level extracurricular activities.
The children seems to be more active and vibrant compare to the children I see in Maidenhead are so quite and dull.
I guess I would like to know what is everyone else's thoughts in this..and if anyone else has been in this dilemma?

[ValBiro]

I think it's a bit unfair to describe children from a different area as 'quiet and dull'.