My mother in law's partner is Italian and has recently made inappropriate comments about my baby's body (baby is 7 months old). He said that she has a "nice bum" on two occasions and also that you can tell she's a girl because she has "little boobs". He's also said that because she eats so much, we need to be careful she doesn't get fat and she'll need to go to the gym when she's older if she continues eating the way she does, she has literally just started eating solids and really enjoys her food. I don't know how to tackle this sort of behaviour and comments about her body make me feel really uncomfortable. Is it usual in Italian culture to talk about physical appearance so much?? Even for tiny babies?!