When to tell

[Tumbler2121]

I had chemoradiotherapy for cervical cancer last year. I'm fine now but vagina has pretty much sealed up as a result of treatment. There may be a procedure in the future.

I'm ready to start dating again .. At what point is it fair to tell a prospective partner .. first date if I like them out at a later stage? I'm early 50s.

[Embarrassednamechangeadoddle]

I personally would leave mentioning it for a few dates. The first date is just to test the water and I imagine most of the time first dates won’t go anywhere. No point having that conversation unless you’ve had a couple of dates and know you are interested in more.

[Embarrassednamechangeadoddle]

Oh and I am glad to hear you are well now! 🥳