My 81 year old FIL is insisting on driving all the way around a major busy motorway, regularly, in a 25 year old car that we refer to as “Trigger’s Broom” it’s had that many replacement parts. MIL, same age, very unwell, sits next to him and they fight constantly over the ancient, out of date satnav they won’t replace with a maps app.
We have tried lots of gentle and then more direct approaches but it’s just terrifying now. He is physically frail, his eyesight and reactions are poor and he has terribly arthritic joints.
A few years ago there was an online form but I can’t find it - does anyone have recent experience of reporting? Will have to be anonymous because it will destroy all trust and we are trying really hard to help them accept the help that he and MIL desperately need atm. GP surgery is useless and chaotic so I’m not calling them - wouldn’t trust them not to say it was me! As it is, could be a neighbour or hospital worker or someone.
So worried, and exasperated -someone share a link?! Please?! I love them but fk me they are a nightmare!