3 weeks ago I asked for advice about convalesce homes for my DF following a fall at home. He has broken his shoulder/upper arm in 3 places.
I'm pleased to say that despite being given the wrong type of sling which made the break less stable until the fracture clinic sorted it out, he is making good progress. My work gave me almost 3 weeks off to sort things out but after finding a suitable home, going through their assessments plus my care, DF has made great progress so has come back to stay with me, rather than going in there. DH is WFH on days when I am in school, and on my days off, I can look after DF. He is in the cottage next door to me where he happily spent most of 2020 and 3 weeks over Christmas. He needs help getting up & going to bed, plus his meals preparing, but he is doing pretty well, all things considered. In fact, if the drizzle holds off, we're going down to the beach for a short stroll later.
Thanks for the help I received. My cousin has been amazing, my stupid narcissistic sister is now bleating about her plane tickets being wasted in late February. You couldn't make it up.