Hello Folks. My mum is very frail and about to undergo a financial assessment with regard to her care needs. My parents aren't rich - but they have maybe £35k in cash and savings accounts etc. it's amazing how the cash stacks up when you are bed ridden..!
My dad has decided he wants to give much of this money away before the assessment takes place (next month). i've told him that the assessors will look through his bank statements etc. He says 'i want to give your brother £10k for IVF. that seems like something i should have done months ago, so surely i will not be penalised for that'.
what does mumsnet think? if he gives away some or much of this cash, in targeted form (invoices attached etc) is that OK? or are the assessors going to come down on him?