solidbrass- My DCs Catholic school is in one of the most deprived areas of the country. We have children who have all kinds of issues to deal with at home and can often be seen walking around the streets late at night. I know children who have parents who have drug and alcohol problems, and children whos parents are living with cronic or life thretening illness. A large preportion of the children are entitled to free school dinners, living in poor accomodation.
Furthermore, many children speak English as a second language. They come from places such as Kosivo, Poland, The Congo, Sre Lanka to name just a few , many of these are asylum seekers and refugees. Both my DSs have IEPs for special educational needs.
As for paying "lip service" families are asked to pay a contribution of £10 per family per year. If this makes me very involved, pushy and determined in my DCs education, then I will take that as a compliment.
But the reason our school serves the community so well is because we embrace all of these children and cherish them. Our school is a safe haven where everybody belongs. Because our children are taught that Jesus loved everybody even when all around them saw them as outcasts because they were different or sick, and they are taught to do the same.
Ok what was written in the bible could be a load of old tosh, but Id rather my kids believed that if it shows them how to be good citizens. My DD is 13 and still in a catholic school. she is now beginning to question the bible and no longer takes everything at face value. But that doesnt stop her from being compassinate and caring to people who are not as fortunate as her or feeling jelous of those who have more.