Hi Lemontart I think your good experience illustrates that there are good things about Steiner - which most of us here probably agree about, because, after all, we chose the schools for what we thought we were going to get.
I still maintain that if the closeness to nature, outdoor play, growing veg, singing, craft, early language etc etc were all there without the spectre of anthroposophy...Steiner Waldorf don't have the monopoly on all those things either.
But my question to you would be, if you knew/had known that all those things like the colourful paints, singing songs, the gnomey garden, particular stories and puppet shows, advent spiral and all, had some occult spiritual meaning, or that your child was encouraged, say , to use their right hand, when they're left handed, because the teacher gently explained that it's "better" for the child, it's "right" to try and change them, ( rather than the fact that left handedness signifies karmic weakness) would you have done things any differently? Were the reasons the teachers gave, the true spiritual anthroposophical ones or were they watered down?
I'm not asking in any way other than I'm interested as to whether it would have made you do things differently.
I think the teacher's versions, like pro websites, don't tell it as it is.