@Araminta1003 As someone who has been a governor in state schools, has worked in state schools, has sent their children to state schools, who had parents who worked in the NHS their entire working lives, I think you are very wrong. Wealthy and reasonably well off people paying tax and using state education and medical care are good for the system, not bad, and are extremely welcome. They are easier to educate, donate more of their time, money and expertise on top of tax they have already paid (from a basis of actual knowledge of what they are supporting if actually using the service, rather than occasionally patronising charity if they don’t), and are healthier, so cost the NHS less, anyway.
For private schools to siphon off the most engaged families, whether via scholarships or fees, does not generously open up more places for the waifs and strays in the best state schools, it just lowers expectations and levels of engagement amongst those who are left behind in the state sector. And I think it is disingenuous to claim otherwise, tbh - fee paying schools can be innovative and set high standards, of course, or be more nurturing and good with SEN, but they are an extra escape clause for those who can afford it, once the places in the “best” state schools have run out, they are not evidence of the moral superiority of the people paying the fees.
And you only have to look at medical care in the US to see what a lie it is that if you can afford to pay, you should because this is a good thing for those who cannot afford it. Nobody in their right minds would want to be uninsured in the US and reliant on its free provision. And of course UK state education and healthcare wouldn’t remain in the form they are in now if society moved to a model where only the poor could access state provision. Why on earth would they, with such a fundamental shift in the social contract?