@dontjudgemeagain and the fact she'll be educated alongside a mixture of people rather than just people from the same background as her... this made me chuckle. You have no idea what you're talking about. Our local schools are busting at the seams with generational white locals, definitely not a mixture. Big cliques of parents who all went to the same school together too. Talk about same background. Don’t believe me? Pop on over to Black Mumsnetters and have a read of the threads asking if they should move to a particular area, worried because of the lack of black people. And they have reason to be concerned. “mixture of people” my arse.
In very sharp contrast the independent prep and senior schools we moved our DC to (after bullying and SA in state that the school did not want to deal with, I might add), for the last decade my DC have mixed with DC from just about everywhere and from all kinds of backgrounds. My white northern British DC speak half decent German and Spanish despite never having lessons in school and have a basic grasp of Swahili, they know a bit of Chinese (know all the swears) and who knows what else. My DS friends go home in the holidays to Mongolia, the Caribbean, Brazil and are of all religions. And there’s the DC of our military families whose parents move frequently to postings all around the world, do you sneer at those families who serve their country? DS best friends are a Hindu from London and a Kenyan boy, you will not find a more different background to my DC. There are many reasons to send DC to state school but the suggestion for them to be educated amongst a mixture of people rather than "just people from the same background" is fucking ridiculous.
Posters who hate the independent sector, are you aware that this policy has already put a lot of jobs under threat? While you are gleefully rubbing your hands at your ultimate goal of closing those schools it risks putting a large workforce of British teachers, cooks, admin workers, grounds staff, drivers etc out of work? And the (often local) businesses who supply them will be impacted too. Many have worked in the state sector and will not go back to it, the one’s I’ve chatted to say they’ll move to schools overseas if it comes to it (so the loss of their income tax to the treasury seems assured). I gather some indy schools are already reducing staff in order to cut costs and thus lessen the impact to parents. If you are salivating at the thought of British taxpayers losing their jobs then shame on you. Before reading reports by assorted institutes of whatever political flavour, first stop to think that those fees go back into the economy via salaries and running costs, and falling pupil numbers will mean job losses, or else where on earth do you think the fee money goes?
Lastly the dirty little secret the anti-indy crowd either wilfully ignore because it chafes at their politics or are unaware of is the number of people who work in the state sector who send their DC to independent schools. I’ve met loads of them in my years as an independent school parent, it’s eye opening. Healthcare professionals who need the longer school day or even boarding provision just so they can do the demanding jobs and hours they work and qualify for promotion, state school workers who schlepp off to jobs they hate (either due to abuse from DC/parents or shite management, often both) in order that their salary funds indy school “so I can afford not to send my kid to a dump like this”. These are the people who’ll be forced to move their DC and cut their working hours/refuse promotion/quit. It will probably make foreign parents think twice too, so a big chunk of money coming into the economy wiped off there. It won't hurt the wealthy higher tax payers you hate so much, but you can't have everything.
As the OP and others on this thread will attest, if someone hates their job but does it solely to give their DC a better chance in education why wouldn’t they quit the minute they’re priced out of spending their disposable income in the way they wish?
My years of a schoolie parent are almost done and the VAT hike won’t affect us (we’re just one at state boarding now so no VAT - indy parents should definitely look into this its been a fantastic choice for my youngest), but its not as clearcut as VAT will earn the treasury X billion and only affect a small % of DC.