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Would you pursue this with the school?

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Cristall · 14/04/2024 14:12

I found out during the Easter holidays that DC’s teacher left suddenly a fortnight before the holidays started. Nobody was informed until the email arrived earlier this week. The teacher had only worked there since Christmas. There’s a replacement teacher taking over after the holidays.

I’m concerned that the teacher left so suddenly. My thinking is that if nothing was amiss the school would have made him work his notice, at least until Easter. The fact he left so suddenly makes me think he’s been sacked for some unknown incident.

Would you ask the school for clarification? Do I have the right to demand it? At the very least I want to know if he quit or was sacked - and if he was sacked, why.

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Geebray · 14/04/2024 15:37

This is another of those "Why did you even bother posting this?" threads.

OP, if you only wanted answers that agreed with you, you should have put that in your post.

Shinyandnew1 · 14/04/2024 15:38

Cristall · 14/04/2024 15:29

Yes but I don’t see why that’s relevant.

Your response to this news is frankly irrational-I think you would seriously benefit from someone neutral to talk through such things with.

Do you have a tendency to catastrophise?

Bluepetergarden · 14/04/2024 15:40

This has got class WhatsApp hysteria written all over it

EmilyTheCriminal · 14/04/2024 15:41

As someone who spent 22 years as a teacher I always knew that some parents have a really low opinion of teachers

But to read the comments from this hysterical,

unhinged poster saying that she would be happy to hear that the teacher in question is seriously ill or has had a family tragedy, because she only cares about her child? I'm speechless.

OP, you need help.

BoohooWoohoo · 14/04/2024 15:43

SlashBeef · 14/04/2024 15:22

If he's done something terrible/criminal you won't find out about it unless it's in the press or your child is directly impacted.
My friends husband was sacked immediately in 2022 when he was arrested for having images of child abuse. The images weren't of any of the pupils and the parents were not told. It's yet to go to court and they still don't know. You may feel entitled to know details but it doesn't work that way.

This happened in our school in 2018 and it was very different.

The kids started sending round a link one evening and within 24 hours the school had contacted parents.

School and police (it was sometimes joint letters) said no evidence that he’d used photos of pupils and school offered counselling for any child feeling the need to talk.

He’s now out of prison and operating a burger van a couple of hours away. Some of the teachers told the kids that they’d driven up and seen him which I found pretty surprising (telling kids about the visit not the burger van)

Cabincrew1 · 14/04/2024 15:44

Look at it a different way, if you decided (legally) to remove your daughter from school, would a teacher have the right to come knocking on your door demanding to know the ins and outs of your life ?

You sound entitled.

Tristar15 · 14/04/2024 15:44

Cristall · 14/04/2024 14:20

We thought it must be something really bad for him to leave so suddenly. Schools usually drag out the notice period for months. A sudden departure is very worrying because we immediately assumed there must have been some misconduct followed by sacking. I don’t think it’s reasonable to worry parents by refusing to give a reason for the sudden departure, even if it’s just “he decided to leave for personal reasons”.

You think a significant incident came to light 2 weeks before the holiday, that the school instantly dismissed the member of staff and miraculously found a replacement to start after the holidays? Get real.
It takes weeks if not months to carry out an investigation, even if they had been suspended the school cannot legally employ a new permanent staff member as the suspended staff member still legally has their job.
You have no right to know anything unless it directly affected your child (which you would certainly know about by now).

SlashBeef · 14/04/2024 15:49

BoohooWoohoo · 14/04/2024 15:43

This happened in our school in 2018 and it was very different.

The kids started sending round a link one evening and within 24 hours the school had contacted parents.

School and police (it was sometimes joint letters) said no evidence that he’d used photos of pupils and school offered counselling for any child feeling the need to talk.

He’s now out of prison and operating a burger van a couple of hours away. Some of the teachers told the kids that they’d driven up and seen him which I found pretty surprising (telling kids about the visit not the burger van)

To be honest there is no link for people to send around at the moment. You'd only know about it if you'd been told. I google him often and he's somehow managed to stay under the radar thus far.

CattyCow · 14/04/2024 15:51

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Delia65 · 14/04/2024 15:55

Isometimeswonder · 14/04/2024 15:36

Would you be so outraged if this was a female teacher?

Guaranteed she wouldn't be

viques · 14/04/2024 15:59

So what happened to the Autumn Term teacher?

viques · 14/04/2024 16:08

Cristall · 14/04/2024 14:29

I also think it was unreasonable of the school not to inform parents when the teacher left, two weeks before Easter. We didn’t know our child didn’t have a teacher. We only found out a couple of days ago.

I am assuming this is a Primary school, in every primary school I know, and I know lots, the class teacher greets and dismisses the children in the playground. Are you saying that for two weeks you didn’t notice it was a different teacher? Or if your child uses wrap around that another parent didn’t get on the class hot line and say “where is Mr X?”

myrtleWilson · 14/04/2024 16:15

mind is blown that the OP was previoulsy employed as a teacher!

Bluepetergarden · 14/04/2024 16:18

Pretty sure now this is a wind up

Cristall · 14/04/2024 16:18

viques · 14/04/2024 15:59

So what happened to the Autumn Term teacher?

Left at Christmas, with a letter saying he was going to another job and wishing him well in the future. Totally different because there was an explanation. The lack of explanation is what’s suspicious.

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MississippiAF · 14/04/2024 16:19

Cristall · 14/04/2024 16:18

Left at Christmas, with a letter saying he was going to another job and wishing him well in the future. Totally different because there was an explanation. The lack of explanation is what’s suspicious.

OP, what outcome do you want?

Is the issue that he might not have been up to the job, (in which case, he’s gone), or that your autistic child would have preferred notice, or just that you also struggle to process change without a full explanation of facts?

Cristall · 14/04/2024 16:19

Isometimeswonder · 14/04/2024 15:36

Would you be so outraged if this was a female teacher?

No. I’d be less concerned. Because 90-something percent of sex based crimes are committed by men, and the vast majority of violent crimes too.

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Mannikin · 14/04/2024 16:21

My husband left his teaching job very suddenly when our 5 year old was diagnosed with cancer. Which was absolutely no one else’s business.

Cristall · 14/04/2024 16:22

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Cristall · 14/04/2024 16:24

MississippiAF · 14/04/2024 16:19

OP, what outcome do you want?

Is the issue that he might not have been up to the job, (in which case, he’s gone), or that your autistic child would have preferred notice, or just that you also struggle to process change without a full explanation of facts?

I want to know that my child hasn’t been exposed to the sort of behaviour that would lead to sacking. That’s all I care about. I had great concerns about this teacher to begin with, and he’s departed suddenly so I’m wondering if he’s done something that I need to be concerned about.

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Cristall · 14/04/2024 16:25

Mannikin · 14/04/2024 16:21

My husband left his teaching job very suddenly when our 5 year old was diagnosed with cancer. Which was absolutely no one else’s business.

Well then all they have to say is “Due to personal circumstances”. To say nothing at all is highly suspicious and worrying.

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noblegiraffe · 14/04/2024 16:25

If a man or woman had committed a violent or sex crime against your child that led to his dismissal from a teaching position, you would have been informed.

You have not been informed.

ARichtGoodDram · 14/04/2024 16:26

You’re not going to get to know anymore than you do.

If the school were going to tell you anything more they’d have done so already.

They’re not going to change that no matter how much you think they should.

Cristall · 14/04/2024 16:26

noblegiraffe · 14/04/2024 16:25

If a man or woman had committed a violent or sex crime against your child that led to his dismissal from a teaching position, you would have been informed.

You have not been informed.

I’m not convinced I would have been informed. The school would try to cover it up. They already tried to cover up that the teacher left - they didn’t inform me for two whole weeks.

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Geebray · 14/04/2024 16:27

I'm bowing out of this thread now. There's absolutely no point in replying to the OP!