@TizerorFizz - you express that very clearly!
@Herecomesthesunshine83 - you ask what people will do. I'll keep DD at her school, because it's brilliant and it's helping her to grow into a fantastic version of herself - which is something that will be with her for her whole life. Not because of any sneaky advantages, or old-boys network, or unfairly high grades - but the outlook, capabilities and personal characteristics she's developing.
It doesn't take away from anyone else that she's had these opportunities for personal growth.
I'm obviously not suggesting that DC at state school don't also become fantastic, capable, brilliant people who can do absolutely anything.
I'm saying that private school is benefitting my DD, and it's what I want to spend my money on.
As a side-effect, DD being a better version of herself also benefits society a tiny amount. That's obviously not why I'm doing it. But it is why VAT wasn't previously charged.
If the government put VAT on books, I'd continue to buy her books because a life-long love of reading will benefit her.
But if VAT was added to books vindictively - just because not everyone reads to their kids - and people were glad that some kids now won't have any books of their own, then I'd feel that was unfair and bad policy.
The vindictiveness expressed about private schools makes me feel a bit less engaged with society. I don't like being vindictively squeezed for extra cash (which other people don't have to pay for their own luxuries like holidays abroad) whilst simultaneously being told I deserve it and looked down on. I've previously felt quite good that the tax I pay helps other people (an adult earning over about 40k is a net financial contributor to the state, below that is a net recipient who is subsidised by the > 40k earners), but I don't any more.