When i make my 'half' joking comments it is as much about taking the piss out of myself as it is about pigeon holing children.
Think of it this way 'ME' a child regarded as generally 'Dum' and better off in a 'special school' and according to my 'Dyslexia ' report (aged 37) graphic speed, writing speed and visual awareness in the bottom 1% of the population.
Not only would i not make the grammar stream , i would not have made the 'button' sewing stream.
The other context Bertrand goes on about is the 'bullying' and abuse that goes on to 11+ failures !
I have for most of life suffered bullying, abuse piss taking and people being in general unpleasant to both me and my family.
Think about my 'younger' sister who had the double whammy at school of having a 'strict' English teacher mother and a 'spaz' or 'retard' of a sister. This meant i was seen as a way as getting to my mother and sister.
As pointed out 'Grammar school' girls can be the most horrid ones using sub contexts leaving me open to abuse without knowing it and thus requiring my sister to protect me!
However, i have put these things behind me and prefer to see things in a 'black' comedy type way by using humor to overcome great stress and hurt.
This is why i find it 'amusing' people (with less than 5% of the issues facing me ) cry about how failing the 11+ 30 years on has scared them for life and effectively limited their chances.
Unfortunately i see things in either 'Black' or 'White' way part of developing life skills in order to cope with life.