mum I don't expect you, or anyone else to seek out bad schools. I'm saying they exist just as much in fully comprehensive areas. It's very easy to think the system is fair, when your own situation means your dc won't end up in the bad ones. My point remains the same, instead of people being outraged at the idea of grammar schools, it needs to be admitted the current alternative is equally unfair.
Actually if you put a grammar round here I can think of a handful that it would make a difference to. Overall it would be roughly the same though. And of course I can express an opinion on my local schools.
peregrina I disagree. School allocation day might be worse for those selecting by exam. But 5yrs, 10years, 30years down the line, knowing that your school limited your chances, purely because it was assumed your social status meant you didn't deserve a decent education is just as damaging.
Re pru's and badly behaved dc, I would say that round here most are the result of inadequate Sen support, and bad school management. It's semi rural deprivation here, so admittedly different to an area with generations of social problems. But it's fair to say that numerous kids who have issues at one particular school do perfectly fine at other local schools, even one that has almost identical intake. It also doesn't help that with ss being so limited, deprived dc generally end up in mainstream unless their parents are capable of fighting the system. Or they get managed out and someone helps the parent fight for a ss.