DD (Y8) school trips are today. They had a choice of 3 trips, which they made approx 4 weeks ago. DD and her best friend chose to go on the same trip and have been looking forward to it.
Yesterday, their firm tutor announced that another child wanted to go on the same trip (having previously chosen a different trip). She asked if anyone would swap and when nobody came forward she selected a name from the register at random. It was DDs best friend and she was told she was now going on the other trip.
I will probably be crucified for mentioning this but I assume it's relevant. The other child has SN (they are able bodied and don't have 1-1 most of the time though). But I can only think that this is why the teacher took this course of action, because this trip was the only suitable one for this child.
However, the way it was done seems very unfair both on the child and on DDs friend. The child surely shouldn't have been named like that because it leaves them open to being blamed by their peers. But also - DDs friend chose that trip and planned for that trip. Less than 24 hours notice that actually too bad you're going elsewhere to somewhere you didn't want to go with people you didn't want to go with seems very harsh!