Hi
I am new to this site but desperate for help.
My son has an EHCP and we have recently lost our case for a secondary school of his choice. He has quite severe Dyslexia, emotional difficulties and suspected High Functioning (Mild ) Aspergers. We have visited all the ESMH schools (formerly BESD) and found one that we all thought - inc my son that was perfect for him. The problem was as it was Independent. The LEA objected and selected a local ESMH school as their preferred provision. There was the obvious difference of the cost, but the school they have selected, we know will be totally unsuitable for him for many reasons. I am at a total loss of what to do. I cant send him somewhere I know in my heart will not only increase his anxiety, frighten him and be totally counterproductive to his emotional wellbeing, as well as the impact his 'fight or flight' behaviour will have on the rest of the family. He has missed out on an incredible amount of school since year 3, and yet Ive only 5 weeks left now to try and find another more suitable school. I don't feel I would be able to home educate as I have 2 other children that this would impact. Where so I stand legally, and what would my options be now. I would be very grateful for any help ???