I live in a rural area where the majority of people are MC commuters or reasonably well paid upper working class.
The vast majority of DDs primary run two cars and have a holiday ( some uk, some abroad) every year. They use gallons of petrol, running their DCs to ballet, football, cricket, swimming etc.
If school organises a trip or they lose their school jumper the bill is no great sweat.
However, there are a very few DCs at primary and a higher percentage at senior school. Desperately trying to keep old bangers on the road to keep NMW jobs. They have no spare money for extracurricular activities and can't afford the petrol for days out. Their DCs don't have iPods, laptops or their houses broad band.
Many of them have one car or both work long and difficult hours. Their DCs come to school on the bus and they can't make 'sharing assembly' and PTA.
A great deal if the time they are forgotten by the majority of parents and the school.
I only remember them because, by a quirk of rural life, one such family lives next door. Their DD plays with mine and I see her waiting forlornly for us to come back from ballet.
Her eldest brother borrows my phone (he never has any credit) and was in 7th heaven when he got an
Instance quote he could afford. This meant he kept his job (buses are rarer than days without rain)