Timetoask that's certainly what many of my immigrant friends think
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TBH I think there's an element of that. I've visted China quite a few times, and what seems clear is that if you're poor there, you're poor. Destitute, no access to proper healthcare, fuel, food etc.
Yet, if you're middle class, you really do live a life beyond your parents' wildest dreams.
So that is very much the goal for anyone who can.
Also, the fear of losing that is entrenched. To go backwards is not only shameful, but extreme.
These are powerful drivers to work hard at school. Plus of course years being starved of anythiung except state sponsored knowledge produces a powerful hunger, that is being opassed down to the younger generation.
Here in the UK, things are different. Being poor is not quite so extreme (though not pleasant) and has been avoided by the vast majoirty of the country in recent times.
In addition, 'doing well at school' is not going to propel you into an entirely different sphere. To have a markedly different life to your parents, you're going to need to do a hell of a lot!