I don't think DS1 will be going to university anyway, he is very unacademic, though sporty. We are taking a long term approach to employability; DS does a paper round, to help him get a Saturday job, to help him get a holiday job, to help him get a job!
DS 2 would love st Andrews and could travel if necessary, I just have to get his dyslexic brain through his high school exams.
Thank good I live 500 miles away from London, distance gives you perspective on the whole madly competitive scene. (I did live in London for many years so can compare).