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row in parking lot with head teacher! (longish)

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sansouci · 01/10/2005 18:33

There is next to no parking by dd's school. Everyone complains but for the moment, nothing has actually been done about it, except for the police coming round & taking photos of pick-up & drop-off times. The yummy-mummies make it even worse with SUVs but anyway.

Yesterday when I went to pick up dd from school, I had to double park. I left my warning lights flashing to show that I was coming back soon. Unfortunately, dd didn't come to the car easily & then I got chatting with another mummy, as you do, forgetting completely about my precarious parking place.

On returning to the car, a group of angry women were clustered in front of the school & of course I apologised profusely to the one or two I had blocked.

One woman made a rather bitchy comment as I was charging by & when I saw her heading for her car a few minutes later, I asked her what she felt could be done about the parking. It's not my problem, she replied shortly. We got into an argument, which escalated, as things do on a Friday afternoon. She said, I'm a teacher at this school! to which I retorted, My daughter is a student at this school & if you're part of the staff, you should care about the parking problem! I wasn't rude, but I was very angry with her & she was angry with me.

I eventually roared off, furious and shaking, cursing the woman aloud. Do you know that silly woman? I asked DD. Yes, she said, she's the head teacher. Oh SH*T, I thought, Now I've done it.

How can I face her again? She'll be dd's teacher one day. I think I was right to be cross but I was at fault & certainly on the defensive. What do you think I can do?

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cod · 01/10/2005 22:24

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sansouci · 01/10/2005 22:25

Well, it is Switzerland. So regulated you sometimes feel like running amok & breaking every rule in sight!

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philippat · 01/10/2005 22:25

when did yurt-making become illegal?

misdee · 01/10/2005 22:25

mieow with two kids with cerbal palsy is not allowed to park in the school car park.

sansouci · 01/10/2005 22:26

This having been said, I promise to never double park again.

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harpsichordcarrier · 01/10/2005 22:26

I posted this for you once already sansouci now concentrate please...

sansouci · 01/10/2005 22:27

I will keep a watchful eye on that teacher, though.

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harpsichordcarrier · 01/10/2005 22:28

yurt making is far and away more anti social that double parking if you ask me
blot on the bloody landscape
hope you gave him a stiff penalty cod

netter · 01/10/2005 22:28

I wouldn't recognise the head of dd's school, a couple of weeks ago I met the head of the whole prep section, but I wouldn;t recognise the head of pre-prep or the Principal of the whole school. I have met them at an open evening but am hopeless with faces.

sansouci · 01/10/2005 22:28

OMG. you all don't actually wear those things, do you? Very Lands' End, not that I have anything against them...

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foxinsocks · 01/10/2005 22:28

they are so popular on that link harpsichord that they have sold out in every colour and size other than dusky pink XL

cod · 01/10/2005 22:29

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moondog · 01/10/2005 22:29

Misdee..that's not on at all......

fqueenzebra · 01/10/2005 22:29

SS: hey, do you know anything about family history/geneology in Switzerland? One of my ancesters was the son of a village/town Obermeister; the Obermeister was a horrible tyrant, threw his son down a well, something like that. So my GGG-grandfather & his mum ran away under cover of darkness, all sorts of drama in that bit.

I imagine the Swiss keep detailed records, though. This was about 1850....

harpsichordcarrier · 01/10/2005 22:30

as it happens I was driving past school at kicking out time yesterday and - yes - dusky pink XL fleeces as far as the eye could see.

sansouci · 01/10/2005 22:30

hello foxinsocks! come to have a go at me? I wouldn't blame you of all people!

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harpsichordcarrier · 01/10/2005 22:32

well it bloody well should be a crime
punishable by death
really it's the only language they understand
that and making those horrible chunky brown mugs they always sell at craft fairs
and making peg bags

foxinsocks · 01/10/2005 22:34

no - I think it's quite funny actually - new school and arguing with this mad teacher so early on - that's got to give you some playground credit.

QueenOfQuotes · 01/10/2005 22:35

"Have you noticed as well, that the people who live closer to the school are always late?"

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sansouci · 01/10/2005 22:35

thank you. you're a sweetie. (don't cringe -- I'm canadian & have a right to be soppy!)

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sansouci · 01/10/2005 22:39

I'm worn out after all this (and Elizabeth I in between) and am off to my cot.

I will keep you posted as to what happens on Monday when the Parent from Hell and Godzilla duke it out...

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foxinsocks · 01/10/2005 22:41

I shouldn't have snapped at you on the other thread - I know what you were saying and I could see where you were coming from. Nighty night!

hunkermunker · 01/10/2005 22:47

SS, sorry not to have revisited (I cleaned the kitchen, including hob - have obviously totally flipped!).

This might make you laugh - it's meant to!

And suggest this to the teacher as a way parents could park in future

Alternatively...

QueenOfQuotes · 01/10/2005 22:49

PMSL hunker

QueenOfQuotes · 01/10/2005 22:51

this is quite good too