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row in parking lot with head teacher! (longish)

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sansouci · 01/10/2005 18:33

There is next to no parking by dd's school. Everyone complains but for the moment, nothing has actually been done about it, except for the police coming round & taking photos of pick-up & drop-off times. The yummy-mummies make it even worse with SUVs but anyway.

Yesterday when I went to pick up dd from school, I had to double park. I left my warning lights flashing to show that I was coming back soon. Unfortunately, dd didn't come to the car easily & then I got chatting with another mummy, as you do, forgetting completely about my precarious parking place.

On returning to the car, a group of angry women were clustered in front of the school & of course I apologised profusely to the one or two I had blocked.

One woman made a rather bitchy comment as I was charging by & when I saw her heading for her car a few minutes later, I asked her what she felt could be done about the parking. It's not my problem, she replied shortly. We got into an argument, which escalated, as things do on a Friday afternoon. She said, I'm a teacher at this school! to which I retorted, My daughter is a student at this school & if you're part of the staff, you should care about the parking problem! I wasn't rude, but I was very angry with her & she was angry with me.

I eventually roared off, furious and shaking, cursing the woman aloud. Do you know that silly woman? I asked DD. Yes, she said, she's the head teacher. Oh SH*T, I thought, Now I've done it.

How can I face her again? She'll be dd's teacher one day. I think I was right to be cross but I was at fault & certainly on the defensive. What do you think I can do?

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cod · 01/10/2005 22:13

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fqueenzebra · 01/10/2005 22:14

My neighbour used to do that, too, Moondog (drive the 1/8th mile, I mean). What's worse, she didn't have seatbelts on any of her kids. Am not even sure if she had a carseat for her baby .

harpsichordcarrier · 01/10/2005 22:14

Moondog, we live about 200 yards from school. my neighbour drives about 150 yards and parks her enormous vehicle on the corner right opposite the school.
she is a very nice person indeed (and a church goer ) and twice a week I babysit for her while she goes to the gym

Caligula · 01/10/2005 22:14

LOL at "hefty of thigh and bottom"!

Sansouci, we still don't know why you didn't recognise the head. Is she new? Undercover? I'm desperate to know now!

misdee · 01/10/2005 22:14

i do plan to keep walkign 3 days a week, but the other 2 i have to drop dd2 off at preschool which is another mile away and need to get to miews lol.

netter · 01/10/2005 22:14

I have to admit to often parking up 20-30 minutes before dd finishes. However more often than not this is becasue I have been on my way back from somewhere but not enough time to go home first or something. The traffic can be awful and I prefer to be early rather than late. Sometimes it taked 45 mins to get to school, other times 20mins.

sansouci · 01/10/2005 22:16

Ah, she's not exactly the head. She's a senior teacher and apparently has a say in the running of the school.

The school does have teething problems. It opened September 2004 in an office building where employees used to smoke in the hallways & stairwells. It was strange, to say the least. Now they've rented this other place but the location is crap, as you can imagine!

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QueenOfQuotes · 01/10/2005 22:16

"45 minutes beforehand? What sort of example is that to the kids?"

Well one of the 'culprits' - I don't actually blame her.........would you like to walk for over 45 minutes (across some very horrible roads), with your 3 beautiful (but very boisterous) triplets

She then walks into town to work, and picks them up again afterwards.

Re the 'consideration for schools' - all very well, but when the area which most of the children come from has ONE primary school (no senior one at all), for about 1/4 of the town. It gives them very little option but to find another school

cod · 01/10/2005 22:17

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rickman · 01/10/2005 22:18

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moondog · 01/10/2005 22:19

Oh just remembered that HOTAB doesn't strap her kids in either (and at the birthday part I attended in a leisure centre this afternoon,she sprawled unattractively on the floor as i ran around panting and sweating playing tennis with her kids.....)

Maybe I should start a thread on my other hot topic which is......

Lazy Arses Who Do F8888 All At Kids' Birthday Parties

philippat · 01/10/2005 22:20

cod might be right... are you SURE she was a teacher and not Suzanna or Trinny? A stand up fight in the middle of a school sounds right up their street. Is the french/german/italian word for 'fleece' remarkably similar to the one for 'double parking'?

sansouci · 01/10/2005 22:20

What is a fleece? Polartec? Sheepskin?

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fimac1 · 01/10/2005 22:20

QofQ

If the roads are 'horrible' they should have pedestrian crossings - they are put in in direct relation to RTA's

cod · 01/10/2005 22:20

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fqueenzebra · 01/10/2005 22:21

I think, SS, you should make an appointment to see her and apologise for your behavior. If you're simple & honest about it maybe she'll admit to having lost her rag too (a bit). But don't go see her demanding or even expecting an apology from her. Keep your bit short & brief & if she doesn't seem willing to "make-up" than keep the whole thing short. That just seems better than letting things simmer, not knowing where you stand, and risking that she might nurse a grudge against you for the next 4 years & transfer it onto your DD.

cod · 01/10/2005 22:21

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Aero · 01/10/2005 22:21

I rarely leave enough time to find a parking space at school, so I park and .....er.......run! - buggy and all! A parking space is nice if you can get one, but I have no problem parking further away and walking. Ds1 and dd's school is 2.5 miles away.

sansouci · 01/10/2005 22:21

Some humour is just what I need at this point!

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foxinsocks · 01/10/2005 22:21

oooh tablecloths

the mere mention of the word makes me want to cry with laughter

tigermoth · 01/10/2005 22:21

ah, so she's not exactly the head and it's not exactly a school location, stranger and stranger!

moondog · 01/10/2005 22:21

Needless to say,people with disabled children and/or spouses are completely exempt from this code of conduct.....They should be able to park in the bloody foyer if it makes life even a tad easier for them all.

cod · 01/10/2005 22:22

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sansouci · 01/10/2005 22:23

fqueenzebra, you are right! This is what I plan to do. I have a temper which cools quickly & common sense usually follows.

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fqueenzebra · 01/10/2005 22:24

Tigermoth, must admit, if I didn't recognise SS as a regular user I would have written off the whole thread as likely from a troll.. for not recognising the "head" if nothing else.

Schools may be run differently in Switzerland, I guess.

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