ffs maizie, I don't think my children are the 'only children in the world'. Doesn't change the fact that ds1 didn't 'get' phonics at all. So if you are rigidly stuck to 100% phonics, what about the children who simply don't understand them, don't respond etc etc?
That's why I think 'mixed methods' (by which I do not mean doing a bit of this, a bit of that, a bit of the other, but actually tailoring your teaching to the CHILD) work - so one child might do brilliantly with phonics, whereas another (me and ds1) would be left flailing. I can't see that that is so hard to understand.
You know nothing about what I do - in fact I am a teacher (though not in a school, or of an 'academic' subject). And I have to teach reading music as part of that. And you know what - I have to tailor the way I teach that, depending on the child. Some children (and again, ds1 is like this) get the idea that 'this note is A, so play this note', some children don't have the middle bit, so they know what key a printed note corresponds to, but wouldn't necessarily get the note name, some go by the sound (dd is like this) etc etc. If I stuck rigidly to one system, a certain number of children wouldn't learn to read music at all.
I think you were patronising, as I specificaly said that a sample of 4 is not enough to draw conclusions from, I'm not saying 'ds1 did this, therefore write the whole NC around him'. But I don't think it's rocket science that different people learn in different ways, and part of the art of teaching is to reach children in whatever way they respond to best.
As far as the 'using picture clues' goes, I still think it is useful - because it opens up a lot more interesting stories. Taking ds2, he only knows a few words as yet, he is getting good at sounding CVC words out, but his books would be pretty dull if they stuck to those words. So one word per page will be a 'picture' word, whilst the others are words he either knows or can work out, and that seems to suit him pretty well, as he gets an interesting story, and practises his reading.