I live in a middle class area but coming from a sink estate comp myself, I don't worry too much about where dd ends up in this context. At present, she's going to the local secondary school which has a huge range of cultures and backgrounds and will soon be taking on the kids from a failed secondary school in the city. This should increase the ethnic diversity and improve the soci-economic spread too. It may impact negatively on results, but dd is either going to be motivated enough to get on (which I think she will be) or not, in which case, we start looking at her non-academic options for her future.
Other parents in this area are up in arms about the absorption of the failed school, talking about the high degree of knife crime in said establishment and insisting it shouldn't be allowed. Where the hell else are these kids going to go?
And I'm sorry, but society is changing in so many ways and our kids are going to have to be much more streetwise than we were. We can't live in a bubble and neither can our kids, as much as we'd like them to. Some people can pay to keep them in the bubble a little longer, but if you can't you may as well accept that your kids are gonna mix with some awful people and some great people, just as we do as adults.
If you can't pay, you can't control their environment. And I think life's too short to worry about what I can't control.
I didn't vote for the tories, but they got in and surprise, surprise, they're trying to attack the normal guy in the street. I won't let that worry me as I can't change it. So instead, I'll find the most constructive way I can to deal with whatever crap they throw at me. Most people will have to do the same in the long run anyway..