I've just had something sold on Ebay that was a collect in person only item as its too big and bulky to send. The person who bought it is obviously new on the site and hasn't understood the collect in person policy and won the item assuming that I would post it to them. I've emailed the buyer letting them know I can't post it. But what do I do know wrt to selling the item - is this a second chance offer thing (never done one - there was one other bid I think) or relist, or do I have to inform Ebay of a problem so I'm not charged to relist?