Seller taking weeks to email...what should I do?

[Flighttattendant]

I bought some big curtains about a fortnight ago. The seller didn't list them as sendable, but when I emailed before bidding, she agreed I could arrange a courier.

Anyway...I won them, she sent her phone number, so after a few days and when she didn't reply to emails, I rang...she sounded a bit hacked off and said she was very busy with loads of guests.

Anyway, fast forward a week and I got an email with the weight of the parcel and the address, but not the box size. I had asked for the size so I could book the courier. So I emailed back thanking her and asking for the size again.

No reply...the box is going to be getting in the way but I just feel like there's nothing else I can reasonably do.

I paid for the actual curtains weeks ago...should I email again or what?

Just sent he courrier.

most allow massive boxes anyways for cheap so say its 60x 60 x 60cms

and tell her its coming on X day.

Thanks...will have to wait till next week anyway, now, so will see if she emails and if not will book it for Monday.

Bit rude of her though isn't it?

I'd be tempted to say can you please let me know what Day this can be collected next week or I will have to ask for my money back and will leave a negative feedback.

i think she is just being a bit passive aggressive, and didn't ever really want to send them - but she has found a box, and packed them etc so she is trying.

Anyway, thankyou for your help - I will give it the weekend I think.