Basically, I was the winning bidder for 2 tickets to a concert for this Thursday. I emailed the seller beforehand to ask if I could collect the tickets from him, rather than him post them, because I need them as birthday gift for DP on Weds morning. he replied saying that I could collect in person. Since I won (on Friday eve) I have emailed him 3 times, to ask if I should pay via paypal or if he'd prefer cash on collection (to save him the paypal fees). I've had no response at all. I was hoping to collect them from him today. If I don't hear from him by tomorrow morning then I will need to go out and buy DP some other present instead, as I have no time to go out on Tuesday. If he does get back to me tomorrow night and I've bought DP another present, then clearly I can't afford the tickets as well. I don't want to lose my 100% feedback rating either. What would you do?