We had this problem (as a buyer). The courier had delivered to a road name similar to ours and some hooky character had signed for the stuff. It was a £50 hard drive, so I wasn't too happy, but between us (customer and seller) we hounded the couriers til they sorted it out.
The seller actually sent a duplicate item and we stayed by window waiting for them to come. When they didn't arrive, we rang them up and they said they'd attempted delivery....no-one home. That was when we asked them to recheck the address and sure enough it was wrong!
I know how frustrating this one is from both the seller and the buyers point of view and I hope you manage to sort it out!