Long time eBay user, but only came back to it recently to sell a whole load of stuff and so much has changed I feel as if I no longer know if I'm even making any money!
I sold some vintage maps recently and listed the postage as the cost for a small parcel. They sold and buyer paid.
When I came to package them up I realised that I could package them in an old Amazon sleeve and send them for the Large Envelope price, so I printed label and did this.
I later got feedback from the buyer saying thanks they were great, and the postage refund was a 'nice touch'!
I hadn't refunded any postage as the maps sold very cheaply anyway.
When I tried to find my eBay statement for the sale it was hard to decipher, but it looked as if they charged a fee on my estimated, higher postage!