I've ordered two things from eBay. Haven't received either, but both marked as delivered.
One was a top from a women, I spoke to her and she showed me the receipt from the post office. I don't think it's her fault that I haven't received it and I would feel bad telling eBay and they take the money back from her.
So what will actually happen if I let eBay know? If these items are down as delivered but I don't have them, does this just mean I've lost my money and the items?