Whilst listing some new stuff tonight I noticed that once it went live there was an option for click & Collect, collection, and standard post ie Royal Mail 2nd class or whatever you normally select as standard postage service - these options are all what the buyer can now choose on your listed item, wether you agreed to it OR not when listing in the options. I tested this as I went back to revise item and only chose Royal Mail 2nd class, didn't select any click & Collect or pick up as an option.
Now I understand why Ebay have done this, as click & Collect is where you can send the parcel to an Argos, so it's more convenient for a buyer to pick up. But I just wish they wouldn't automatically set it as standard without us agreeing to it.
So this one is for the buyers - i have checked if I can turn click & Collect off and you can - you can opt out of it if you log onto the www. Ebay desktop website (not app), click account, then site preferences -it's under postage and packing preferences in site preferences. It gives you the option to offer click & Collect, and you can select yes or no.
I've kept it as yes for now, to see if I get more sales. This is just to make sellers aware.
However I haven't yet worked out how to not offer pick up even tho I didn't select it.