A few months ago, I was the sole bidder on an item on Ebay which I won. Eight days after payment, I get a message from the seller telling me her daughter took the item to the charity shop - she had just got back from holiday and discovered this so was refunding my money (which she did).
However, her feedback revealed that this has happened a few times before (and she doesn't sell much) - she had sold items (to sole bidders) and then cancelled the order later with an excuse. I left negative feedback for the first time in 13 years as an active Ebay user which led to a protracted to and fro of messages between us- she basically accused me of being a keyboard warrior and that she wished she hadn't told me the truth. I let it go but have now discovered she has listed the same dress again - exactly the same listing, pictures, everything. I can't figure out what's going on, but it feels wrong and I can't find any way of reporting her to Ebay without accusing her of something really serious, which this isn't. She refunded my money just before the 10 day deadline Ebay imposes and has now listed this 4 months after the original listing, so I can't link it to the previous listing as it is more than 90 days since. Any suggestions?