I've only been selling on eBay for a few months and still a bit clueless! Today I "sold" an item on BIN, in so far as I got a sold notification, but no payment came through. I've now had a message from the buyer basically saying they really want to buy the item and what should they do? Gut response is "pay for it then!" but looking at their profile (which has zero feedback), they are based in S Korea. The item was listed with no overseas postage, and I don't really want to ship it overseas. So what do I do? If I cancel the sale does that reflect on me, and can I relist (it's a £50 item). How were they able to "buy" it, without paying and when they are outside the areas I ship to - how do I stop this happening again?Help!