Buyer wants me to cancel her bid, how does that work?

[trickyex]

No reason given and no please/thank you, just several messages to say she needs to cancel the bid, that ebay say its for me to do this and then another message asking if I am refusing to cancel the bid as I havent yet replied (busy putting DSs to bed!).
Can anyone advise me what to do?
TIA

The buyer can do themselves in eBay settings, I have done it myself a couple of times. It isn't up to you, tell them to have a look in settings

If you cancel the bid as a seller, you still might have to pay eBay fees, the buyer needs to cancel.

Thanks will tell her, have a feeling she is a tricky one from her last message (rather aggressive!).
Gah

the bidder cant cancel in the last 12 hrs so you will need to do it if you want to sell .. (best to or you may get a non payer.. if you do cancle then the previous bidder will win , and at least you will sell the item

The auction ends on sunday in fact.