I won a couple of car bundles for my son, both sold by the same seller. I pay immediately after the auctions finish (so I don't forget) then it says my payment is still processing. This was on the 13th Feb.
It's said that before but it only took a few seconds last time for it to go through.
I checked my paypal and it said "'Unclaimed' - buyer hasn't accepted the payment yet". I don't know what goes on from the selling side of Ebay as I've never sold anything on there, just bought. It's not dodgy, is it, as the payment is still pending?
Who puts things on Ebay to auction then forgets about them?! 
Should I message them? Withdraw payment?