I always say to buyers if they are not happy to contact me first. But OH NO - someone has opened a case against me as an item wasn't as described. I've said I'm happy to refund if they send the item back, and am waiting to hear. In the meantime, Paypal have stopped me using the money he has paid me in my Paypal account, effectively freezing the account. I've added funds from my bank account as I'm bidding on some items that end tonight.
The funds won't be in there until next week, and my buyer won't get their item returned to me very quickly for a refund. Would you just contact the seller and explain to them what's happened, or would you retract the bid?