This is driving me mad! Buyer has returned an item for a refund which I am happy to do but because she opened a dispute without contacting me first I can't see how to refund as there is no option to do this. Says funds are being held when I look at the paypal transaction. How can I refund her and resolve the case? Phoned paypal and no help at all they just said it is an ebay issue. Any help appreciated.