I bought an item on Ebay on 3rd September, payment via Paypal was still marked as pending and had an email from the seller today saying she would send the item as soon she received payment. All the reasons on the Paypal website pointed to the problems being at her end, but she says that she has never had a problem before. I have cancelled the payment and tried again this evening but it is still pending. Any suggestions, I am getting married next year and the item is a beautiful wedding dress I have set my heart on. Thanks in advance