Never had this happen on Ebay before! I bought something for DD2 and paid (Paypal) on 10th May. Private seller, not much feedback (although all good), but it was some kids books, so presumably just another mum.
I haven't recieved anything, and delivery estimate said 16-18 May.
I emailed on Sunday (19th) to ask if she'd managed to post them yet (knowing how busy life can be) and still nothing.
What do I do?? Email again and ask her to contact me asap? Keep waiting? Eek!