Quite a new ebay seller here. As a baby gift, my very generous SIL bought me a hugely expensive designer changing bag. You know what it's like, you have a baby and get bombarded with gifts. I received more than one of these, and the expensive one didn't turn out to be the most useful. So ... I put it on ebay. Then, DB and SIL, who live miles away, announce that they're coming to visit. Panic - I can't sell it. Is it OK to pull the auction? Will it make me look bad? Will I be charged? WWYD?